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So I've been hanging out with these new friends. And this is the first time a friend group has called me ugly. Three of them have all bluntly said I'm ugly af. Now this one hit me hard, not because I care too much about my attractiveness, but that I may be living in another delusional world. I think I'm pretty attractive and also gay guys and girls have hit on me before and came up to me straight up said "i'm attractive". I'm tall 6+, good body, athletic, and I for SURE have good hair (cuz my "friends" have complemented me on that). Now, the problem is I don't know if my friends are joking with me or not and I obviously don't want to ask them cuz c'mon now. Anyways, just curious what u guys think.

I lost my hair to a time when I was very weak and ill now I recovered however my follicles do not so I shave the thin stuff that is left. Now I don't mind it, many say I look good for being bald and white etc however I do worry what girls will think... a big goal of mine was to be married in my mid 20's to a girl I who was very beautiful in body and mind, and yes I do need that physical attractiveness as well. I was always raised to the idea if you aren't attracted to someone's looks initially it's not right to date them as you don't value it as much as you would with someone you were right away etc. I'm not saying personality doesn't matter but just that I need the girl to be attractive above the norm too. My standards aren't super ridiculous, but my girl has to be very thin and in good shape, with a very cute attractive face. That's pretty much it, unfortunately most girls don't match that. (Maybe it's the locale) And with no hair I just worry as those girls will have plenty of options with hair etc. even before I was bald I was no stud. (Well actually some say I am, even on here but still not a traditional model)

Anyway i I don't want this question to offend anyone or anything and honestly it won't change my mind either way-1,000 girls could vote a bald guy can't expect a good looking girl this young and I still wouldn't lower or change my standards at all as like I said, it's a very big dream to me, I'm attracted only to what I'm attracted to and I'll not accept otherwise just because I lost hair.

please be honest and realize I only want to know where a guy like me stands. This isn't meant to offend anyone as we all find different things attractive, like I said all I need is one very good looking and sweet hearted girl. I'm no player.

If someone comes up to someone and says hi, and they say hi with hesitation, and in a dull voice, while staring, and then the person asks if they're bothering them, and they say no, I'm just trying to study. Could the person being attractive be a distraction to the other person while they're trying to study?