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No, we're not. Intelligence and success is always seen as a plus in regards to dating value. Logic tells me that it would not hinder you in dating at all, considering that you don't exceed several standard deviations above average in IQ. At that point, you would experience a lot of trouble in relationships and just communication with others in general.

You're most likely unattractive to men for reasons other than your intelligence and success for the fact that intelligence and success is a desirable trait. This is just a way for you to cope. Self-proclaimed intelligence and success in the context of you attempting to create this false pretense illusion of superiority is unattractive... If you want to correct the issue, then straying away from delusion would be your best solution. That way, you can identify the real issue and not turn people against you by attempting to make them feel inferior to you.

This is just delusion at its finest. You are by no means above men that don't actively pursue you or reject you. They don't pursue you because they don't find you attractive. It has nothing to do with your intelligence or success. Accept that and get the fuck over yourself ladies. You're not that scary.

So I lift, visibly haha, but I don't know if I should start skipping working my shoulders, because I think they are getting disproportionally big, so to focus more on other muscle groups.

By the way, I'm primarily cutting atm, I already lost over 10kg, gonna proceed until I reach 10-8% body fat, so since I would then look even more buffed up, I'm starting to get concerned if I will look too intimidating to girls, that's not what I really want hahaha 😅 Honestly, should I just stop lifting and just do some cross fit or martial arts to cut?

Also do I look like I'm on steroids? (some people at gym asked me about it) I really don't want to give out that impression either (by the way, I'm not).