Search Results: petite girls

I have a theory, heavier women seem to be more attracted to skinny or buff guys, I'm leaning towards buff guys.. It's all too easy for me to make heavier set female fall for me but a petite or skinny girl never give me the time of day... I'm unsure if it's because I'm ugly or what but I highly doubt that's the reason... Anyway can we take a vote on it?

There's this really cute girl that seems to like me. We haven't talked but I am 90% certain she likes my appearance. Like she is very nervous when I am around and stares at me for seconds until I look at her. Now the thing is that I don't believe she can like me. I am only below average in height (5'9'') and skinny and my face was rated 5.5/10 on lookism. net, while she has a really cute face and a very hot body (slim waist, wide hips, big breasts, petite). I had girls in classes stare at me but they were not as attractive as this girl. She is also smarter than me so I feel like shit. There are lots of guys who flirt with her but I am still sure she likes my appearance because no way a girl would stare at me for so long. Usually I am like invisible to girls.

You guys might tell me to stop being an idiot and just approach her but I have never had any interactions with girls so I am afraid she will be turned off when I talk to her because I am very shy when it comes to girls. Now at least she believes I am confident because I am very confident with other guys and have a pretty deep voice.

So should I try getting to know her or continue looksmaxing and become hot?

I am only 5'9'' and around 140-145 lbs. I am not too weak for my size (I can do 10-15 pullups) and I am physically fit, but since I am so small and pathetic, I am weak compared to tall big guys. I feel like that's the reason girls don't like me. Those few girls who liked me were very petite (short and skinny), so I think I am only left with a very small percentage of girls who would agree to date me. That was a few years ago, now most girls and guys are bigger and I am too small.

For most girls I am the size of a child and not a real man. I wish I could work out a lot and become muscular, but I don't have time for this because of my studies.

So should I just forget about girls since I won't get any?

And before you say to just lower my standards and date a fat girl, I would say that it's just a myth that they like skinny guys or that they are easy. If that was true I would happily take a fat girl and would not complain here. But they are only attracted to either guys who are fat like them or guys who are fit.