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Okay for me there has to be both a emotional and physical attraction for a relationship to work. Right now the emotional attraction is still there, but the physical one is gone. I still love her, but at the same time she has let herself go and it's a turnoff now. Her hair is always messy, she rarely brushes her teeth now, and she just goes out wear whatever. Not to sound like a jerk or anything, but I want my girl to be decent. Nothing fancy just decent cloths, good hygiene, cute face and good looking body. I still love her personality, but I can't love her physical self. I've tried talking to her about it, but when I do she yells and say if I really love her then the way she looks wouldn't matter. Does that make me wrong for wanting to breaking thing off?

I want to know does love have a portion of lust mixed into it? or is it possible to be completely happy in a relationship without kissing and love making yet still be in deep love with them?

I know a friend who has been dating his girlfriend for over a year now and he didn't truly find her as attractive to begin with but he still loves her and wants to be with her only yet they dont kiss or have sex. It got me thinking about a lot of things.

So is it possible? Could you do it?

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