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I am 25 and never had a relationship, even though I am told I am attractive. Doesn’t that mean that men don’t find me good looking? I have only been approached by men I don’t find attractive in person/ get messages online. Most women I’ve spoken to have men are drooling over them. I’m not fat anymore and try to maintain a decent physical appearance so what gives? Who ever says dating isn’t shallow is lying, personality and appearance both play a role. Not to mention, I don’t think I’m likeable because I tend to attract people that seem to dislike me/drama follows me. I am very quiet and stay to myself, what’s wrong with people?

I want to understand why I always end up attracting drama with people. While people may say I’m the issue, I don’t think I am. I’m very quiet and only speak when spoken to. In HS, middle school, work, college etc, I have been around all types of people. There’s always one person that dislikes me for no reason. I’m 25 and I have developed major anxiety as a result of my trauma. This anxiety is worsening things for me, because I’m alienating myself. And as a result, people are continuing to judge me negatively because of how quiet I am. I’ve been told things like I’m unapproachable etc but people see what they want to see. I don’t think I’m a bad person or go out of my way to hurt others. So why do people develop issues with me or bring me down etc? My own family did this to me, people I trusted and have known for my existence. At work now, there are women who are close with almost everyone but me. And I’ve never done anything to them. Not to mention, my lack of dating life. I’ve never been asked out by a guy I’d like to date, only unattractive men. I’ve lost a lot of weight and try to maintain my thick/slim figure. So why am I always alone? I swear there’s this curse on me I can’t put a finger on.