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This is in real life, not online.

I met this girl at school. For the sake of convenience, let's call her Joanna.

Looks-wise I found her completely average with the exception of amazing legs, but her upbeat personality definitely made her 10x cuter in my eyes.

She was a casual friend of mine. She'd smile at me and we'd have small talk, but never had in depth conversations.

Basically, a friend of mine invited some of his friends to a party at his house, and that party included me, Joanna, and some other friends of his, both male and female.

At the party, we were having fun. Mostly just drinking, hearing some nice music, and playing video games.

Then, the rest of the people wanted to go out to buy some food, while me and Joanna just wanted to stay and play some more Smash Bros.

And we did just that...

But then out of nowhere, after a few rounds, we got worn out.

And then Joanna said, "(my name), have you ever noticed how I never ever wear pants, and only wear shorts?"

Then I said, "I guess?"

Then she smiled and went on to say, "The truth is, I used to be very insecure, and a lot more lazy. But in the past few years, I've been going to the gym more, putting in the willpower to shave my legs, eating healthier. And now, it's gotten to the point where I absolutely despise pants and only want to wear shorts, because it reminds me of the hard work I've been putting into being healthy all these years."

And I just looked at her and said, "Yeah?"

Then she said, "Yeah. Plus, whenever I'm bored I just like to feel my legs all over. They're so soft and smooth it's ridiculous. Before I became healthier they were never this lovely."

And she smiled and leaned on me real quick, I blushed kind of hard. Then she suddenly said, "Now back to gaming!" And eventually everyone else came back and the party continued. Nothing else happened from there.

But man... what was she doing?

Was she flirting with me, or was it just casual small talk?

Yes this is exactly how it sounds. I've been told that when I try not to flirt and when I genuinely think I'm being friendly it's comes of as flirty. However, when I make the god-mistake of attempting to flirt I might as well make a throw a note that says "like me? (Yes) (No) (Maybe).

So my question stands as such what is considered flirting and/or how does on flirt.

Ladies I could use genuine real life examples
Guys any tips or suggestions on how to improve or modify my approach

This girl and I at work are always flirting around each other and have great chemistry. She is so much more prettier than my girlfriend. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 11 months. I am going to prom next month and asked my girlfriend out. The girl at work is 21 and I’m 19. The cut off age for prom at my school is 20 so I couldn’t invite her anyways as my date. (She went to my school and graduated in 2017 so they know she’s 21). My mom doesn’t really like the girl at work because she is mouthy. We have a lot in common too. When we walk by each other or stand next to each other I feel something like a spark. However the girl from work is being weird. she's been angry towards everyone lately. She has been keeping her distance from me and hasn’t looked me in the eye once these last two days. We have never hung outside of work. She usually stays and helps me put stuff away and we walk out together but she has been leaving 20 minutes prior to clock out time and there’s a bunch of stuff needs put away. I bumped into her and said sorry and she gave me a dirty look and said your gonna be and walked away real quick. Did she find out I have a girlfriend by social media? She also keeps moving away from me when I walk near her. What gives. What do I do? I’ve never told anyone at work I have a girlfriend and she’s the only person I really talk too at work and I’ve never told her either.