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Search Results: ruined chances with guy
Help with a guy I think I lost?
I think I ruined my chances on something real, and I need some advice. Super Abridged: I bumped into a guy I already somewhat knew (family ties) and we immediately hit it off. He bartends at a rooftop venue I...
heart_broken_
Xper 4 Age: 34 Does he just need time to cool off? Or did I ruin any chance I had?
Letsum try making this long story short. I have been talking to this guy, via snapchat, mostly flirting and sending naughty pictures to each other. After weeks of this he finally found time to meet me. It was late so...
Anonymous
(30-35) SHY GUYS! What are some sneaky ways to ASK a shy boy for his number?
First of all, I approached him ONCE, we talked a little bit only about school and that's it. It has been a little over 2 months since we've known each other and I'm starting to like him. How can I talk to him more? He's...
ILOVECOCOA
Xper 4 Age: 27 Don't Let One Night Ruin Your Life
I'm in my 30s, and I have never had an alcoholic beverage nor have I ever done any form of illegal drugs. When people hear that oftentimes it's met with disbelief, or they feel like I've not lived life, or what have you,...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I overcome the awkwardness? Was he interested in me at all? I still like him. What should I do?
I like this guy from my workplace who is about 10 years older than me. We weren't exactly close but we talked and I enjoyed our chats. I wanted to spend more time with him, like casually chatting him up in the office but...
MatchaLady960517
Xper 3 Age: 30 Do age gaps ruin people's chances of getting together?
First, does this guy sound attracted to me? The first time I saw him, (we were in a meeting room) he smiled at me. But he was probably just being polite. While still in the meeting room, I whispered to my friend that he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong of my parents to not allow me to meet up with guys that I met online?
I'm 20 and still living with my parents and my parents won't allow me to meet up with guys that I'm interested in on Tinder so as a result I sit at home when I should be meeting up and socializing with guys that I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why the Topic of Religion Shouldn't Be Swept Under the Carpet
Yes, the taboo topic. The topic that is sure to generate more controversy then all of my posts about race and black lives matter combined. No doubt this will anger some. If this were any other site I would fully expect...
GoldMeddle
Editor Age: 31 Are guys really turned off by girls who pay?
I've always been the type of girl to offer to pay for dates or at least half. I'm even down with taking turns paying. I really do not mind at all. I also have no problem making the first move or texting/calling someone...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I will always be a single guy for the rest of my life?
I feel like I don't want to live anymore as every year goes by and by I just get nowhere. No dates, no girlfriends and just overall nothing at the age of 30. Maybe I had an evil cursed placed over me to ensure I will...
longbeach225
Xper 6 Age: 40 Im a 19 year old guy, and I never had as much as a kiss?
I am 19 years old and I never had a girlfriend. I never even had a kiss. Im a normal guy, I have a job, I have friends and I go out with them, I also play guitar and have a few more hobbies. As for the looks, I am about...
TheInvisibleMan
Xper 6 Age: 29 Was my personality too strong?
So I met this guy on tinder that goes to my school, and a couple of my friends know him saying he's super nice and funny, and when we messaged on the phone we clicked right away. Later that day he wanted to meet up with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I ask out my best friend, or try to move on?
This question has been weighing on my mind for quite some time - I'm a trans boy, and I've been out to my best friend for about three months now. He told me how I identify wouldn't affect our friendship, and I'm happy...
Pan-Tastique
Xper 4 Age: 25 Guys, How To Date When You Are Broke AF
Let's be real. Dating typically requires money. You need money to get ready, money for the movie tickets, for the club, for the dinner, for the coffee and ice cream, for gas, for the concert, for the bar, for the...
BeeNee
Editor Age: 43 Dating apps have ruined my confidence. How normal is this?
Hey people, I'm a 21 year old living in a very busy urban area. I get out quite a bit, mostly by myself, and I like to take walks around the city and visit stores and the like. Aside from that, I like watching Netflix and...
HenkTheTank
Xper 5 Age: 31 Girls, How do I talk to/ act with girls without coming across as creepy?
Ok. I know the basics. (No breast staring or pickup lines, etc...) I am afriad i just give off creepy vibes. The first girl i ever liked (6th grade) thought i was stalking her, but i would never!! I was just nervous to...
Iconia
Xper 5 Age: 25 Should I be easy?
Okay so im 19 years old and I've been friends with my guy friend for about 5 years now. Its a friendship i believe will last a lifetime. I liked him in grade 10, he didn't return the feelings but about 3 months ago I saw...
Anonymous
(25-29) The 2000s: A Cultural Review
As a child of 1996, the 2000s were indeed my time. From the release of Halo 3 on September 25th, 2007 after nearly three years of highly anticipated waiting to the era of ringtone rap when that Senegalese fellow with...
JRICHARDS1996
Editor Age: 30 If We Want An Honest Discussion About Race, We Need to Listen to People of All Races
I want this MyTake to be as balanced and fair as possible, because this is an issue I feel passionate about. I will do my best. Feel free to critique this after you finish reading this. I am open to criticism. Originally...
GoldMeddle
Editor Age: 31 Girls, I hooked up with my crushes best friend in college, why do I feel so bad?
I've liked this girl for s long time (We went to the same high school). I've constantly show her with affection and shown interest, but she has never really reciprocated and constantly "friend zones" me. One night I was...
Anonymous
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