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For the longest time, he seemed hesitant to talk to me (originally just thought it was because his now ex-wife is the extremely jealous type and she was constantly cheating on him). We had invited him over for Christmas as he is not close with his family and we were having an "orphan Christmas" for all of our fellow military families/friends. When he arrived, he mentioned how surprised he was that I did not have Die Hard on as he knows that it is my favorite Christmas movie. I have never told him this. I usually just sit around absorbing information and try to learn while he and my husband discuss cars. I mentioned that it was odd to my husband and he brought up the possibility of Friend having a crush on me since I'm so hot. I said how hubs has to say things like that since we're married and that I doubted that this was the case since we're happily married and usually more of a "bro" to my male friends. He countered with how he was attracted to me previously when I was in a relationship and he was just my single friend. I kind of played it off and we went back to business as usual.

As the months have gone on we've been spending a lot more time with Friend, practically going on dates with him to dinner and improv shows/movies. At first, it was always the two of them hanging out or the three of us, my husband has been encouraging him and me to spend more quality time with the two of us. We've also given him a key to our home so he can come crash as his living situation isn't ideal. He made comments originally about not wanting to be a "sancho" and was hesitant to reach out to me. I really need friends here so I did my best to open/available to hang out without being pushy/desperate for friends. The first time we hung out the two of us he did his best to stay away from me despite asking me to come see a movie with him. We then went back to my house and he said he was going to leave early but stuck around to talk to me while maintaining distance. I will post an update

i like this guy we met back in January he talked about his ex girlfriend how they where together for 5 years and when they broke up she got with someone and is happy with the new guy. But the guy was still bringing up the ex girlfriend Jessica how she didn't support his career and she didn't like his family stuff like that.. (idk how long was it since they broke up ) but he said he dated a girl since he left the ex (they dated for 6months) and he ended it cause he said it didn't felt right how she started talking about kids and where they where going to live so he ended it.

he said he wanted to focus on his career and job (he didn't say it to me but I was there ) when he said this it was January

2 months later he's "SEEING"a girl named jasmine do u think she's a REBOUND? .

He kept avoiding me he didn't say hi he told me how's it going in a low low voice then he the new girl comes

He still talking about the ex not to me but someone else

I saw he hasn't posted anything on his Instagram with this new girl "jasmine" that he's "seeing" but I found he's following her and she hasn't posted anything with him , either he just liked her pictures.. but I did notice she's following his sister is that Bad thing for me?

Would it be a good idea for me to move down there where my family lives that way I can be near him or close to him, he knows my family he's best friends with my cousins boyfriend.. and he's friends with all of my cousins and he knows my aunt too so does his brother. In a way when I met him I didn't think I would see his brother or family at my cousins family events.. I haven't been introduced to them yet or even with him (we are acquaintances) since I don't live over there.
he would always greet me with a. Hug even the 1st time i met him i was going to give him a 🤝 He gave me a hug, this time he gave me a handshake goodbye not only that but he said oh that handshake sucks he gave me another handshake. Why did he do that was there a purpose?