My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel appreciated and gets mad when I bring it up, what should I do?

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A lot of it has to do with social media. He rarely likes my photos/comments on them. He has commented nice things on his female friends’ photos before, and he often like their photos (sometimes they are sexy photos too). He has even gone out of his way to like several random photos on a random girls’ profile. He never really compliments me in person; the most he has ever said is “oh, you look good” and that’s about it. He doesn’t show physical affection, and he never says he loves me. Whenever we go out, people mention he doesn’t seem like my boyfriend and they try and get my number. My friends also have mentioned that he doesn’t seem like my boyfriend, more like my friend, when we go out for the first time together. Whenever i mention he doesn’t make me feel special, he gets upset with me. He tells me “i take you out, i pay for things, i go down on you during sex, i listen to you, i care about you. Your ex was abusive and apparently I’m worse than him now!” Then i feel really guilty and sad inside. I hate communicating this with him because it always turns into an argument. I am not sure why i don’t deserve to be complimented once in a while, or to feel cherished and beautiful to the man I’m dating. I feel like he gives other girls attention (especially online), and the more i mention it, the more he does it. I am lost and don’t know what to do. Maybe i am overreacting, but, then again, i feel a man should naturally won’t to appreciate his woman. There was also a time in the beginning of dating where he wouldn’t reply to my messages for 12-24 hours sometimes, but, he’d always be on social media, doing the things i didn’t like or appreciate.

hulkster · Accepted Answer

This sounds like to me, sorry to say this, your jealous of him commenting on his friends pics that girls.
If he takes you out, cares for you, and buys nice things for you? what more do you want from him?
At the end of the day, him commenting on other girls pictures means, nothing in the social media, social media is fake, most of those girls he comments through facebook, he probably never socializes with them in the real world.
Most of time when people compliment each other on social media, its not sincere, its more to please the other person.

If you are looking to your boyfriend to make you feel good and beautiful, then that means you suffer from low self-esteem. Seeking validation from others, is not going to help you, and no matter how much he tells you sexy you are, it will never be good enough for you, because you don't feel good about yourself anyway. seeking validation from others, is like a black hole, no matter you give it, its never enough, the black keeps sucking everything in.

My advice to you, start appreciating yourself, and start think you are beautiful first. The only opinion that matters, is your own opinion, and you need to be saying these affirmations every day at least five times a day, that will rise your self esteem.

Saying that, don't get me wrong its nice to be appreciated from your partner, but maybe look for appreciation from your boyfriend else where. If you want him to appreciate you, you also have to appreciate him as well.
It could as simple as him treating to a nice day out in spar somewhere, getting your makeup done, your hair done etc. But if you want him to do that for you, try throwing some hints at him, like I would love to go for a spar treatment one day.

One more thing, COME OFF FLAMING SOCIAL MEDIA, IF YOU KNOW WHATS GOOD FOR YOU AND ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE WITH A GUY, CAUSE ALL IT WILL DO IS DESTROY THEM. FACEBOOK COULD END THIS RELATIONSHIP, AND MANY MORE DOWN THE LINE.
BE CAREFUL, YOUNG LADY.

Bjorn526 · Accepted Answer

I’m kinda thinking two things; I’d like to get his perspective on this, see what he says. Something tells me he feels whatever he is doing, may not be good enough and feels discouraged. Does he give you examples of how he has tried to show you how much he appreciates you? I’m not trying to take the opposite position, but noticed it is so easy to take your side, while not considering his.
However if he is truly neglecting you, acting like your needs are a nuisance, ridiculous and not sensitive to your feelings, then I would say, you probably should create space between you two, to see how he reacts to that

Kelly_aleksandra · Accepted Answer

Ah i wanna get you out of that relationship so bad. If he cared for you like he says he does why does he get upset and argue with you everytime you bring up a situation that affects you. With all do respect your boyfriend sounds like scum. i don't mean to brag but my partner would tell me how beautiful i am everyday, even if i dont see him, and you're right. i used to get crazy jealous when he'd like other females pictures cos i felt they were better than me and he told me that, yes they do look nice but that doesn't mean that they are nicer than you. in his opinion he is with me, a girl that most men want. when we go out and he see's another man watching me for too long, he grabs my hand or slaps my ass, and then he told that he feels so lucky to be with a girl that most men wish they had. you aren't over reacting, he is being very foolish and he shouldn't take you for granted like this. and also paying for things is something materialistic i dont think your he type of person that cares for material things, more the love and affection. And the fact he gets mad when you bring it up makes me suspicous about him, like maybe he is flirting or doing some unfaithful shit. if i talk to my man about something, it's always a calm convo and we find ways of fixing our problems, a good relationship relies on a balance of equailty and communication. TELL YOUR MAN TO FIX THE FUCK UP, OR LEAVE HIM. he's #trash

coralee · Accepted Answer

I've been dating the same guy for two years and I haven't even bothered to change my relationship status on facebook. Different people display affection differently. It isn't about you it's about him and his comfort level. If you are feeling neglected that's a problem, but first take a deep breath and look for the ways he does show affection. Does he text you to ask how you are doing all the time, does he remember tiny details of things you say, does he go out of his way to help you or your family members. Different people show their love in different ways. Be sure you aren't ignoring his ways of showing affection before you convince yourself that he doesn't care. I have a feeling that this is more your insecurity talking and you are actively looking for reasons why he doesn't want to be there. When we let our insecurity take over it doesn't allow us to see all the good things that contradict what that nasty little voice is telling you. Social media isn't the end all and be all of a relationship. Tell that voice telling you, you aren't good enough to shut up for a day and try to see how he shows affection. If your still not convinced dump him and find someone who will treat you better. But, don't let insecurity dictate your life.

Halligan · Accepted Answer

Women who are in an abusive relationship often get “rescued” by another abusive relationship. They neglect, they turn your words against you, they make you feel guilty for having an opinion... it happens slowly, but it’s a control thing. They will treat you worse over time to where you don’t realize it, and when you bring it up, they will always bring up your ex, not the current relationship. He’s also likely cheating.

Do not stay in this relationship, you are better than this. Take some time off from dating to focus on healing.

vivmatt · Answer

The same thing with me and my now boyfriend of three years. At first, he didn't know how to treat me special or initiate physicality. Whereas I had been in several relationships before and knew how I wanted to be treated. Unfortunately, that meant me being disappointed a lot and him gradually becoming self conscious. The situation was bad until I decided to take things slower than I'm used to and he seemed to notice. This allowed for him to take his own steps and gradually become the boyfriend of my dreams ~ instead of your issues sounding like complaints, make them sound like kind encouragements. Works like a charm!

eor324 · Answer

The way he tries to make you feel bad for having these feelings is manipulative! You have a right to your own feelings and if he wants to be part of your life he needs to do something to change your feelings. I've put up with this kind of emotional manipulation for many years and since I started putting my foot down and saying exactly what I said up above things have changed, drastically. Tell him what I said and see if he changes, if he doesn't then give him an ultimatum, if he still doesn't change.. leave! You're young and I'm sure beautiful, and there are many many more men in the world who would treat you like a queen.

Comawhite666 · Answer

He's not into you as much as you want to, everything you've written has said that he's most likely with you "just because". A guy in love wouldn't be doing that on social media all the time, would tell you daily that he loves you and contact you frequently. If even at the start he was like that then he never was all that into you in the first place. Leave him and find someone worthy of you.

In all honesty it sounds as if he wants you to break up with him as he's being all defensive and acting childish over something really stupid.

SarahsSummer · Answer

First off, you need to separate social media “likes” from the real world. Counting likes or relying on social media for ones self worth is disturbing behavior.
THAT SAID, if your boyfriend doesn’t make you feel special when you’ve clearly told him your needs, that’s a problem. You say the tells you “i listen to you, i care about you” but he really doesn’t. A successful relationship is one where two people communicate their needs and both make efforts to provide them. I don’t see this relationship as the best fit for you.

madhatters4 · Answer

well the social media stuff really shouldn't matter but in totality it does show a lack of verbal intimacy on his part.

it's pretty messed up for him to react the way he does. i mean he has a point but drudging up an abusive partner is really fucked up

i think you need to just say i would like some verbal and physical affection from you. i know you do lots of other things but different people like to have love shown in different ways. and if you care rather than getting mad just make an effort.
while at the same time you try to recognize that outside of the physical and verbal affection/appreciation he does do things that are indications of his feelings and try to be patient and understanding that perhaps verbal or physical affection/appreciation may not come easy to him

igree010 · Answer

Why be with someone who doesn't care about your feelings?
"He tells me "i take you out, i pay for things, i go down on you during sex, i listen to you, i care about you. Your ex was abusive and apparently I’m worse than him now!” - Him getting upset about that, is his problem. He shouldn't spin it around because you confronted him about it and you're upset, it was about your feelings and not his. You're meant to be a couple, if you are upset or not happy you would talk about it and try and resolve it- on both your side and his.
To me, It sounds like he knows your dependable. He knows you won't leave him- because he's gotten away with shit you don't like... which is a horrible trait.

Drop his ass, why waste years on something or someone that doesn't make YOU happy and in a good state of mind 🤷‍♀️

lumos · Answer

Doesn’t sound like a good thing. I always want to take everything on social media with a grain of salt, but the fact that he keeps treating all the other girls around him ”better” than you, and does it even more when you try to talk about it, tells me that he’s doing it on purpose. And the fact that he blames you for feeling this way, without even taking what you have to say into consideration, tells me he isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship. Communication is key. You should be able to talk about these things, even if you disagree, without him resorting to blaming you or throwing temper tantrums (sarcastically comparing himself to your ex..). I don’t see this working out in the long run unless he does a 180 degree turn when it comes to communication.

rozequarts · Answer

hmm I dont know what EXACTLY he's doing on social media, but from some comments it seems he slides in other girls DMs? And flirts with them? Well if thats the case - why would he do so? The answer doesn't sound like a good one. He doesn't sound very faithful in that case. Not only this but if my boyfriend was on social media, he would like my pics at least because its not even about the number of likes its just normal to like and sorta morally support your SO in that small way. Eitherway, if you feel you need more, and he's not giving it to you - find someone else. In the end always ask yourself are you happy? No? Then it doesn't matter what he believes he's giving you, if you're not satisfied you have the right to look elsewhere.

azzntittiz · Answer

It's your relationship, only you know the true reasons you're with him and what your best decision is. I try not to comment much on people having these types of relationship issues because this is just your side to the story, and maybe if I tell you what I really think you'd be offended.

zulfiqarali · Answer

It's sad indeed.. but can u pl tell why u with him after this All? Is he not compliment u only or he treat u generally in this way.. I mean he not love u or he not care about u... until full picture is not known.. an honest opinion can not be given... are u with him and tolerating him cz u love him? anyways whatever is doing is not fair... he is taking u for granted and he should respect ur loyalty and should not do such things on social media... take a break.. a couple of days away from him... gather urself and think positive and negative points and then decide... another thing if u r good u not need compliment of anyone and from those who not care... treat him like he treat u to make him realize

cherryphi82 · Answer

It doesn't sound good. Not liking or commenting on your stuff online is not really a red flag on its own, but it's all the other behavior you describe that makes me question how serious he is. Especially his defensiveness. It seems like the things he does "for you" are him just going through the motions. They really only mean something within the right context, otherwise they're empty gestures. Be prepared for the worst. I'm not saying this can't be saved, but it's most likely best if you didn't set your hopes to high. Weigh your options and choose what you think is best. Always remember to do yourself the biggest favor so you can breathe and be happy.

roriberry · Answer

Relationships are a private deal, maybe he feels he doesn't need to show his affection online. As well; just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean he needs to be in constant contact. If his actions are different infront of friends and family, and in person then talk. But relationships aren't social media.

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

The fact that he gets upset when you bring your problems to him is a huge red flag. My boyfriend always always listens to me when I tell him things that bother me and then we have a civil and relaxed discussion about it together with no one blaming the other or gettig angry or defensive.

He needs to learn that in a relationship it is common decency to hear your partner out and to find a way to resolve things instead of acting like a 5 year old. You are a team and if he is not willing to talk about it and find common ground in a adult manner, then it may be time to reconsider if you want a man who will have no desire to resolve issues for the rest of his and your life.

PanisaLit · Answer

Test him. Create space and give him the silent treatment. Obviously, verbal confrontation didn’t work so give him a little taste of his own medicine. I know it sounds petty, but communication failed between you two, so start liking pictures of guys or guy friends (even sexy pictures of them). If guys offer you their numbers in person, accept it just to see his reaction. He sounds really indifferent towards you, but if you do those two things and if you get a strong reaction out of him, that’s when you see hypocrisy. If he doesn’t care, he doesn’t care. Either way, your relationship may be sinking but confirm it’s sinking before abandoning ship.

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

Ok, all men will like pics of good looking girls on instagram, we just do. However i do not agree with not showing you affection or showing other girls more affection, now i actually have a friend and she came to me with the same question, her ex was doing, well, everything you just mentioned and i told her. "Look" (lets call her taco). "Look taco, likeing other girl's pictures isn't a big deal tbh, but complimenting other girls besides you but like complimenting in like.. you know.. is wrong. He probably doesn't take your relationship seriously, if i were you i would look for someone who will actually treat you like a queen" so yeah now im passing this down to you... gl

Lilyanony · Answer

Say he stopped doing all the things he does and started liking your pictures and paying you compliments would you be happy with your relationship?

I think you may be sensitive because of a bad past experience but equally he should be able to pay you a better compliment than "you look good "
I think your love language is different and you're clashing. Reassess if you can get past this and talk or think about walking.
If you're not happy you're not happy. You have to work out why it is and deal with it, is he the issue or do you need to love yourself more first?

I hope you work this one out.

Evkaxy · Answer

It sounds to me like you are not a good match. You are someone who needs attention and need to be appreciated. There is of course nothing wrong with that. But you are dating a guy who doesn't really express his emotions in the relationship. And there is nothing wrong with that either. But I don't think he will change and I think you'll be frustrated.

Felinegirl · Answer

It sounds like he isn't all that into you, like he sees the relationship as a chore instead of seeing you as the amazing person you are.

I've been in a similar situation, it hurts, but in the end it's probably best to consider letting him go. This only gets worse over time.

JohnFrost · Answer

The social media stuff is kinda dumb. Fact he is with you not with them says he likes you more then them.

But sounds like he doesn't make you happy and you are scared to leave. Like scared to be alone. But from what you say it doesn't sound worth it.

young_blud · Answer

Break up with him. Social media shouldn't be that big of a deal but if he is paying that sort of attention to other girls then he isn't giving you the special treatment you deserve.
"A boy will try to make his significant other jealous of other girls, but a Man will make other girls jealous of his woman."

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Apparently this guy thinks taking you out, sex, and not being abusive should be enough for relationship. He obviously living in his own world. At this point, it doesn't sound like he cares that much for you. Your nice to have around but the girls on the internet seem to be what he truly wants. In that case, I think it's time to leave.

Annie_Mosity · Answer

Oh dear, I just read the tinder bit. Until then I was going to suggest how to try and coax some dialogue out of him but... I think you might be wasting your time. I'm so sorry you're in a relationship that's so one sided. Communication is so important.

chriscdi · Answer

Loving someone is more than just going down on the person or buying them things, those are good things but if that represents love than no wonder our world is so fucked up, i honestly think you should find someone that sees the true meaning of love, since he doesn't wanna say it i will, you are beautiful, I don't know who you are but i can tell by the way you are, dont torture yourself with him, i honestly think you should find someone else, you won't regret it, he is toxic and you deserve to be with someone that would get you the attention you deserve, im always on here so if you need any help with anything dont hesitate, you'll be ok, move on to someone better

Anonymous · Answer

Knock it off with the social media crap. Who cares if he comments or likes stuff, or doesn't?
That being said, you do deserve affection, compliments, etc. If you don't know what the 5 love languages are, you should read up on them. It's obvious you and your boyfriend don't speak the same language.
Also, he is being borderline emotionally abusive by forcing a comparison between himself and your previous boyfriend. Just because he's not as bad as the other guy, doesn't mean he's doing good.
Going down on you during sex shouldn't get him and bonus points. That should be expected, anything less and he's just being an asshole.

vince_r04 · Answer

This guy your dating clearly has no life beyond his phone and he doesn't see the damage its causing you and maybe even doesn't care. You are a beautiful woman and don't ever let him make you feel otherwise. Why do you think other guys hit on you even when your out with him. I'm sorry to say this but he probably has an addiction to social media and isn't willing to see that fact even when its brought up. It sucks for you cus you clearly are trying to make it work but it'll only work when he decides to change and you can't force that no matter what you say or do. If this relationship is causing you harm than the relationship is toxic. Get out of it and take care of yourself. You did your best and that's all anyone can ever ask of you. You're still young so dont be afraid to lose someone who's doing you wrong cus that's the only way you'll find the one that does right by you. Wish you the best in life.

witty-kitty · Answer

He was a jerk from the beginning. He is cheating with other girls online and doesn't rven care that you see it cuz he knows you are still there. If you leave his ass he will get scared and beg u and act like the perfect boyfriend for only a while and then get back to being himself. Learn how to control the situation as he is trying to make u feel guilty for being upset.
That's emotional abuse.

ScottieBoy · Answer

Sounds like an asshole honestly, Im no doctor but Id say this sounds like emotional abuse, I wouldn't think it mattered as much if he treated evreryone like that, but just his girlfriend, well tbh to me it sounds like he dosent actually like you, but thats just my opinion

jessicake · Answer

To me it sounds like he is no longer emotionally invested or never was to begin with. If he has to come up with reasons / examples of how he loves you when you don’t feel like he’s showing it in a way you both are comfortable with, he just trying to convince himself at that point. Every girl deserves someone who hypes them up and makes them feel like they are the best thing for the person they are with. I wish you luck!

mrs-turner97 · Answer

You need to leave him point blank if he really cared for you he would show it period bottom line the best thing you can do is leave you should have a guy that makes you feel special if he don’t he ain’t for you. Him doing that he could also be cheating but that I don't know for a fact but him acting that way it wouldn’t be surprising

djmzes · Answer

Simple

Zanex · Answer

Honestly he doesn't seen like a very pleasing person to date. He simple, and I am sorry to say this, but he doesn't really seem that interested in you. Of course everything is your choice, but if I were you I would maybe ask myself if I wanted to continue this. He doesn't seem to act in a very mature way as I saw someone else mentioning as well. If you feeling bad about something he has done and it turns into an argument where he turns it around and onto you, he seem a manipulative which is far from a healthy thing in a relationship if you ask me. I hope you can use this for something

pooper89 · Answer

I think you already know you're better off without him but you came on here seeking validation for that. Cut your losses. Take it from me... i spent 2 years of my life chasing a guy who never appreciated me or even went out of his way to make time for me. And you know what? I waited and waited and tried and gave it many chances but it never worked out. Save yourself the time

MelaninDoll · Answer

He pisses me off, That's actually a real problem and you're not being over dramatic about it. Bring it up again have a real talk with him about it don't feel bad and be strong. after the talk you'll know if he's the one for you, if he even listens and doesn't run his mouth or go off.

TypsyGypsy · Answer

Honestly in my opinion I see it not working out, lack of communication is a huge thing in a relationship, if he doesn't wanna talk about that simple thing.. what makes you think he's not hiding anything else? I'd say drop it if you can't break him.. it's not worth fighting for something if that something never changes you know?

Angel-Chan · Answer

Girl, its simple. If your boy doesn't respects you or beeing nice or saying "i love you", if he doesn't make you feel better for yourself or he is not making you feel like you are his princess. Than talk to him & if he doesn't seem that he understand, leave him. And never look back.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's time that you move on and find someone better. As someone else mentioned on here, life is too short. There are also too many fish in the sea. Know your worth and that you deserve better. So, again leave him and find someone that will treat you well.

MusicMayhem · Answer

No shit he gets mad when you bring it up, your neediness is driving him away cause it's annoying having to reassure someone that you like them. So that behaviour is driving him to seek greener pastures elsewhere.

Break up with him and learn to be happy with yourself before getting into another relationship. You aren't ready for one.

TrinityD · Answer

It sounds like he actually think a bit lowly of you because of your previous relationship. You have to communicate with him about this cause it is causing you a lot of pain. Or you could try approaching professionals. If all doesn't help, it may be better to end it.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I really don't know what to tell you about this except that maybe he's Not That Into You. I don't see how he could be on social media and not respond to you for 12 to 24 hours later that's kind of crazy I guess you have to decide whether this is the type of guy you want in your life or not you have to search your soul way out your pros and cons what's the good things about being with him what's the bad things about being win if the good outweighs the bad then you know what you have to do

bacca400 · Answer

First, both men and women need to feel appreciated. Have you told him how you want to feel appreciated and that you feel this is lacking in the relationship? Be very direct and specific but polite.

Second, you shouldn't base your worth on social media, that is unrealistic and will lead you down the wrong path. Your self-worth comes from inside yourself, not from someone or something else.

BigRob420 · Answer

Men view this as work. He thinks at this point in the relationship you should know he loves you. He's not controlling so don't expect him to watch over you like a lion defending his prey when you go out. You are both not seeing the other side of the argument. Try doing possitive forms of conflict resolution. Instead of getting upset. Tell him compliments and you'll be surprised that he starts putting in more work.

hahahmm · Answer

He got hurt really bad by another woman and is projecting how she treated him onto you.

Now if you were the other women, as in you two were together before & bad things happened & then you got back together it’d make sense for things to take time.

If you aren’t happy just move on.

hornylotz · Answer

Wow im in exactly the Same relationship calls her babe sexy eyes always commenting nice even had a glance at her inbox and fuk wish I didn't first message pops up hay miss your face not being the first message I've found but I do know if ur not happy get happy lifes to short to regret stupid feelings once you let go there's no turning back feel stronger and your independence shoots sky high no better payback returning there actions go out with friends surround urself around happy good vibes and positive friends

Glazelf · Answer

As your boyfriend he should be at least trying to listen to your issues, especially if they're about your relationship. If he gets mad whenever you bring these things up, he might just not have caught that yet. Try to convince him to talk about it, and if he still won't, he might not be the guy for you.

ShadowGamer · Answer

Well I'll give him credit he is right about being worse then the ex. As for what you should do that's leave for a week don't tell him where you're going just go to your parents or a friends and then see if he actually does care and if he does miss you an if he don't come looking you dumping his abusive arse.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's a way to make you feel so insecure that you don't one day realize thayt you're better off without him. Very narcissistic thing to do

old-guys-rule · Answer

Maybe this is one of those "love language" things and yours is just different then his. (His language is acts of service and yours is words of kindness.) But it seems more likely that he's just not the one for you and you need to find someone who's crazy about you and treats you like an angel :)

askmegirlagain · Answer

Overreacting is the first thing that comes to our mind which is most of the time wrong. People who overreact generally never feel they are overreacting. Tell me top 3 reasons to be with him or you like in him?

Pyrofox · Answer

Learn not to need the constant reminders of affection. As that is going to only end up to continue to take a toll on you. Learn to take his words of affection more seriously and less of the actions on social media.

He sounds like the grounded in reality type and not one to get stuck in social media which is a good thing.

20yearsolder · Answer

I would highly suggest you find a boyfriend that appreciates you. It's horrible for your self-esteem and it's not going to get any better

msam9426 · Answer

First of all am really sorry about your situation.
Coming to your problem it seems he doesn't cares about your presence in the relationship.
Its time you make him realise by showing him what can he feel if he sees someone else in his place.
Now there are various ways to do that. But you know him very well so pick such a move that will bring him close to you and also that would grow a fear in him about losing you which will bring him more close to you emotionally too.
I hope this works for you.

MrMAC777 · Answer

Maybe he has commitment issues or trouble expressing real emotion. Those other girls probably mean nothing to him so he says stuff. But when it comes to you, maybe he has a mental block. For instance, he doesn't want to make it awkward or feel like a "wuss" being romantic and making compliments. Is he a manly man type guy?

AyushMate · Answer

He doesn't love you anymore. He's with you because of sex only. Leave him. Move on. You can get a good guy. Your self respect is most important.

bubble_tea · Answer

Wow, that's so rude. What are his excuses for liking their pics but not yours? I mean it sounds like he can see both of yours and those girls' in his feed. It makes little sense.

Nada_Brahma · Answer

Get a new boyfriend. Ur man should treat you like a queen and enjoy it at the same time. I have a girlfriend and I'm always finding new ways of telling her i love her 😊

UnstableCraft · Answer

Leave. You deserve appreciation and if he doesn't provide it. Find someone who will. You'll live much happier

arcanemontane · Answer

You've already tried to discuss it with him and it didn't work. I would advise you to break up with him, but that's easier said than done.

Catholicgirl22 · Answer

If your unhappy leave him but not because friends or anyone else say you should. Guys are bad with compliments

Natalie11299 · Answer

Don’t rely on social media to fix your problems, and don’t settle for a guy who makes you feel less than you are.

TinaSP · Answer

Change boyfriends. Choose a man this time not a boy

My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel appreciated and gets mad when I bring it up, what should I do?

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