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First, I am never in favor of a child without a father and a mother to raise them in a balanced environment.

Having said that, I know it happens on rare occasion that a girl wants a baby on her own without a guy or a lesbian couple will want the same so how do they decide on picking the sperm donor?

I know this is a sensitive question because no one wants to call another person "stupid" but why would a single girl continue to have babies without a steady father around?

And maybe the better question is why would guys want to father one, or more, children with a girl and then not want to stay around and help take care of their own child?

I know of a girl like this that still lives with her parents and has 5 children at last count starting from when she was around 15 or 16.

Her parents wanted lots of grandchildren and didn't really care if she was married or not, they just loved having the grand kids around. And since her dad had several businesses and had lots of money, they never told her to go after the guys for child support so the boys are thinking this is all a footloose and fancy-free activity for them.

She quit high school before graduating. She is not even close to having a lot of common sense. Most people, even friends that know her, consider her the "ditz" or "airhead" type.

She just seems to be, but I doubt that she is, content living from day to day with all these kids and seeing different guys all the time. It's not that she doesn't want a steady guy, it's just that they only seem to come around for sex and then leave. I know most of you don't know the kind of girl that I am talking about, but they do exist.

Would an intelligent girl ever do something like this? Can we just be honest and say that she, and others like her, are stupid? And are the guys dumber than she is, or not?