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So I had a bit of a fall out, we used to be the bestest of friends we did everything together
we joked about everything even about this situation except that was in the past
and now we actually arn't friends

- She steals my ideas and jokes and dreams.:(
- whenever i am being spoken to or i am talking to someone she bunts in and takes over
- She glares at me when im being nice
- I am trying to win back the friendship and she just doesn't care
- She only is nice to me one on one
- She just wants to fit in and won't even be her self anymore
- She Excludes me constantly
- She condescends me (this was also before we stopped being friends)
- She can't accept my apology and just move on
- She always claims to be tired whenever im around or talking to her
- Il try to have a normal convo with her and shel instantly say im wrong and try to argue
- Like i said "Oh yeah you're really not a procrastinator at all like you actually get your work done" and she said "Yeah because im supposed to get my work done.. like a normal person"
- I feel like she hates me because she thinks i dont try but i do i just have to much stress for anything really
- I get excluded everyday.. i get ignored everyday but do i complain no? do i cling no? .. why cuz im used it.. what does she do Hangs with the popular people, completely avoids me, complains about her being excluded wow
- And by the way just because she has anxiety and she used to have depression does not give her any excuse to treat me like sht because i have basically the same problem
- she's someone that would hate someone else just because the rest of the class does
- No modesty, no loyalty...
- If i am having fun she will destroy that
- other people have noticed this change
- she one ups me


- I know i'm ranting but i just don't know if she's really a bad person or if i'm the bad person and it just confuses me

Also what should I do

I dont understand. We have been very happy together and have been dating almost a year. about 2 months ago he started texting me less, he also almost never calls me or rarely will talk to me on the phone anymore. But when he's with me, he's always on his phone. I know he's not cheating its just weird. I asked him if he still wants to be with me and he asked me "where is this coming from" I continued to say how it feels like a chore for him to talk to me, and how we dont see eachother as much anymore and he said he "hasnt been feeling himself lately" and then asked if he "could get his clothes from my house" but he said he still wants to be with me and does care about me? I dont get it. I am looking for reasurrance and he did not give it to me. Why doesn't he give a damn about me? I am a pretty, hot, nice, helpful to him and everything and it seems like he doesn't care about me and I dont know why. Please vote.

Hi, I just joined marching band and I didn't know anybody because I'm usually very shy around meeting new people and I make new friends very slowely. I started talking to a boy in the band and I could be myself around him and we really connected and we talk all the time. He helps me with a lot of stuff and we are pretty much together a lot. I would consider him a good friend at this point. We have been talking for about 4 days and I know a bunch of his friends now too. He made me less shy and helped me open up around people because he made me comfortable around a bunch of people I didn't know. It's the first time that's ever happened to me. But now I think I am catching feelings for him and I really don't want to because I dont want to screw up the relationship we have now. I'm not good at picking up on if people are flirting but there is a possibility he was flirting with me, and I have no idea if I was doing it back. 😂 but I'm scared to even accept that I have a crush on him in the first place because when I like somebody I'm always nervous around them and I get shy but with him I'm not and I don't want that to change. He's becoming such a good friend and I don't want to screw that up in any way. But when I am around him and we are close I just feel a connection and I've never felt it before. I know it sounds VERY cheesy but I am not making it up! I don't know how to explain the feeling other than that. It's so weird! I don't know if any of this is making sense but if you read this far and have some clue on some advice to give me please do. Should I just ignore it? Wait it out? I'm so lost. My best friend told me I should tell him but I don't even think that's a possibility right now. What do you think?