This MyTake is about my point of view in life,and what i have learned from it,Im gonna discuss both bad and good things in life and what is the answer to life
A lot of people see life differently and live differently,Some say life is beautiful,Some say that life is a prison,Some are afraid to die,While others can't wait for their death.
I see many people doing different things to find that satisfaction,that peace,that happiness in life that fills that specific void
Some do drugs
Some become alcoholic to deal with life
Some of them think their religion will save them
Some people think that having lots of money,luxury and possessions can bring peace and happiness in their life
But do these things really matter ? Sooner Or Later,In the end,everyone realizes that nothing can help them deal with life,The only thing that helps dealing with life is "Being Strong"
These Two Words "Being Strong" Is easily said,But what is the real meaning of those two words ? Being strong doesn't means that if someone treats you badly so you fight with them,If someone throws a rock at you so you throw a rock back at them,No, Being Strong means that when you are falling apart,you try to hold your pieces together,and even if you couldn't and you are shattered into pieces,then somehow,you build courage and then try to pick up your pieces from the ground one by one and join them back together,And while you are falling apart,and when your pieces are being broken by falling onto the ground and you are just sitting there watching your whole life fall apart in front of you and you realize there's nothing you can do to stop it,and when you see your tiny broken pieces laying on the ground and there's no one to help you,and then you remember all the people you had or have in your life who you always thought that they are going to help you,you remember their faces smiling at you while they were talking to you,and then you compare that time with the current time while you are completely broken,and then you learn many important lessons in life,and as you pick each piece of yourself from the ground and start to join them back together while you are dying from inside you begin to see the true meaning of life slowly
Now what can you do to cope with life and how can you survive it
Instead of drinking alcohol all the time,smoking cigarettes,doing drugs and many bad things to cope with life,you should make good and healthy habits to deal with life,for instance, Bodybuilding/Exercise, Bodybuilding/Exercise can be really beneficial for you to cope with life
it helps you a lot not only physically but mentally more,it really helps you a lot dealing with stress,problems,frustrations,and many problems in life,I mainly do bodybuilding because it helps me a lot dealing with frustrations,stress,depression and many other things in life,Its a lot better to cope with life by doing good things that makes you better physically and mentally than destroying yourself slowly which will make your life more miserable and put you in a miserable phase in life for a very long time,I know that dealing with pain in life is too hard,but dont let your pain destroy you,Use Your Pain
No Matter how many storms come in your life,no matter how many times you fall,Rise Each time,again and again,and dont give up.
Before proceeding further to the key of life and what is the answer of life,i should tell you a little bit about my past experience from which i began to see the answer and the key to life slowly which changed me into a whole new person
When i was a kid,i was very materialistic, I used to be envious of people who were very rich,and have lots of possessions and have luxurious life,I used to feel very happy by buying new expensive clothes,shoes,Electronic items like : Cell phones and many other things,now when i was a kid,i used to tell my father a lot to buy me new cellphones,expensive clothes and shoes,i used to fight with him a lot just because he denied to buy me a new cell phone,and whenever he buys me a new cell phone,i used to feel a lot happy and excited,but after few days,i stopped feeling happy and excited,and that new cell phone was just another normal electronic item for me,and so the cycle repeats every time and that used to make me feel very frustrated ,and i became too much frustrated and most people thought that i was a spoiled brat,who is never happy no matter how much money my father spends on me,but the truth is,i was in search of happiness from a very early age of mine,i was very close to my father and other family members,but life came between us,and we started to hate each other and so i got depression from a very early age,my childhood was a nightmare so i started looking for other things to fill that specific void, and to complete that satisfaction and happiness
so i bought many electronic items and cell phone,video game consoles and many other things,but i was a kid back then,so couldn't realize that its not the answer that i was looking for,Anyways,Now i have a completely different view about life, i have seen in life that,Most people give respect to rich people a lot for no reason at all,i have seen people how they greet with the janitor and then i have seen them how they greet with a rich person,im sure you have also witnessed this sometimes in your life,I have seen many people fake laughing fake smiling faking that they are happy talking with someone just because they are rich,now when i see any rich person,i feel really bad for them,because i realize that people are soo fake to them just because of their money,they are soo poor,all they have is money,anyways,i feel very bad for rich people now because i know sooner or later they will realize that it wasn't the answer they were looking for.I dont get happy or excited by buying anything new,i dont buy anything new now,i wear shoes that are more than 6 years old,they are in bad shape,but believe it or not,i feel soo damn happy by wearing those shoes,and whenever i think about buying new shoes it makes me feel soo depressed to the point i can't even think of buying anything new and expensive,even tho i have money for it,My cell phone got broke,and its more than 4 years old,i had lots of money to buy a new expensive cell phone,and i was going to buy it again after many years,because i thought it would make me happy like it used to when i was a kid,i was even ready to go out and buy it,but i was feeling very confused and depressed,and i was really shocked at myself that why am i not feeling happy ? Why am i not excited by the thought of buying a new expensive cell phone after soo many years ? and then after some days i realized that its not the answer that im looking for,so i repaired my old cell phone and im very happy with it,i buy cheap clothes and feel really happy,i dont desire much in life now,the less things i desired in life the more happier i felt
The only things i desire and crave the most in life are the things that can't be bought with money,and believe it or not,sooner or later,you will also realize that the things that you cannot buy with money,Makes your life truly happier and Its the Key to Life.Wondering what those things might be ? Well then here they are : 1. a very small circle of loyal and good friends 2. Family who truly loves you 3. A Loving and a loyal partner. Believe it or not,but these things are the key to life,At least for me it is,You can have everything in this world,every expensive car,a Big Luxurious Mansion,but you can never be truly happy if you dont have those three things in your life,I used to have a loving family too before,but then life happened,and i lost all of them too,i used to have some best friends in life,which i used to hang around with them a lot,a lot of times i just used to sit with them at a rooftop of a building at 3:AM and talk about life,This is the last photo i remember i took with one of those of my friends
Its been more than 2 or 3 years ago since this photo was taken,And this is the same rooftop of the building which we took this photo on which i used to sit with them at 3:AM and talk about life,me and those friends of mine weren't even close to being rich,we were poor people and we all were struggling a lot on life and going through many family problems and many big problems in life,but i swear to god,whenever we used to meet,we used to laugh soo hard and soo much like we have every happiness in this world.
Im Not Rich,but i have money now,all the electronic items and the things that i bought,all the things that i thought it would make me happy,but it doesn't matter anymore,Whats the point of having money and electronic items and things like that when i lost all of my loved ones from my life,when i lost all the things from my life that i can't buy with money.
"For what shall it profit a man, if he gains the whole world, and suffer the loss of his soul?
This is it for now,Take Care and bye.
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