Search Results: changed since college

I'm mostly referring college classrooms as it's more easier to get away with. I'm wondering if anyone still got caught 😂😂😂
Like someone you were talking to saw you talking to someone else and you had to play it cool to avoid drama.

I remember my first semester of college this one guy hit on a few girls in class and he kept going on to the next. It was slightly obvious as he was changing seats every few weeks to talk to another girl. By chance eventually us girls became somewhat friends and talked about it towards the end of the semester. There was this moment of 😱"you too? He tried to get my number and called me exotic, pretty, etc."


Last semester I was extra friendly to this one guy and then another was extra friendly to me so I reciprocated since most guys don't talk to me. I liked both but I'm awkward. So one day I saw them talking to each other and I've never seen them talk before in class! They both looked at me when I tried to say hi and laughed without saying hi back. I avoided both the rest of the semester because I felt they talked bad about me like making fun of my awkwardness. Turns out that one had a girlfriend so I guess it's good I didht keep trying to be friendly 🙄

I do believe the "birds of a feather flock together" principle and is true. I honestly don't care how my friends look but I find that certain personality/lifestyle types dress a certain way and I base friendships off personality and lifestyle. I want more friends because my social life is lacking. I lost contact with a lot that changed in college; we no longer click nor do they want to be bothered.

In class, I hardly see girls who dress like me around. I a few on campus and I'll compliment their outfit but I'm not sure how to initiate friendships with a stranger. It's like all glammed up or plain jane and I feel stuck in the middle.

I try to befriend girls who dress similar to me or way more casual since I feel comfortable around them and usually have similar personalities. Unfortunately they are often mean to me.

Girls that dress nice try to befriend me. I'm talking stylish where guys are all over them and try to talk to them! Guys still act like I'm invisible unless I talk to them first.
I don't dress up as much as them so I don't get why they want to be my friend. I'm always skeptical because I feel like they're being fake. I tend to judge and assume them as "mean girls" and think that they want me to be their *D. U. F. F. Sometimes I find out later these girls are kind and have personalities similar to me so I feel bad to have wrongly judged but I can't help it.

This is how the girls I try to befriend dress:


I'd say their style is plain jane and tomboy that's how I use to dress.

This is how I dress nowadays:


I'd say my style is simple/causal and cute.

This is how girls that try to befriend me dress:






I'd say their style is girly/dressed up and hot.

I love their style and wish I had the guts to wear hot outfits but I'm too self conscious of showing skin.