Search Results: confused by an ex

Is someone asking how you are commonplace?

So I am the person people always come to with their problems, I feel like someone rarely asks about me, and when they do, and even ask follow up questions, I think I take more meaning for it than I should. Is talking...

sage-of-caring

Xper 7 Age: 37

I never expected to talk to a guy, let alone be approached by one!

A guy approached me (twice) at a club. He’s a musician and was playing there with his band. The second time he asked if I wanted to hang out with his friends. My friends and I did go and hang out for a while. He showed...

Anonymous

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Family & Friends

Did I do the right thing by telling my ex to lose my number?

Before me and my ex started dating we was friends for seven years and now I realize when people say never date a friend because you can risk losing a good friendship. We had a good friendship/relationship and things was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Should I fall for my control freak ex again?

After we broke up in about 2 months, she started texting me and begging me to get back with her. she says she was stupid for checking my phone/emails etc. One day she got into an an argument with one of my good female...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"Commitment Phobe" vs "She's just not that into you"

Normal "boy meets girl, boy likes girl, boy starts talking to girl" scenario. Made pretty clear I was interested in her, talked everyday but she was pretty unwilling to commit or couldn't make a decision. Then I got over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy compares you to his ex?

I met these guys yesterday they were really funny then he said I reminded him of his ex I didn't know who she was and I met him yesterday. I didn't even have his phone number and I still don't but I am kind of confused...

ilovecats13

Xper 4 Age: 110

Ladies: Don't Make Your Disappointing Dating Situation Worse

Ladies, have you ever been disappointed by how you were treated in a relationship with someone you loved? Ignored? Neglected? Or maybe even getting led on by someone in the dating scene, and you get the sinking feeling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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What does it mean when an ex sends flirty texts but when you call her out she always has an excuse for it?

So my Ex and I keep contact and text occasionally, we're both currently seeing somebody... But the other day she randomly sent me a text saying that "When you say the word similar it makes me laugh." I asked her a day...

ManGuru987

Xper 4 Age: 41

Dating

FWB, Blocked, Unblocked...Confused?

I'll try to make this short. Last year I ran into an old family friend. We lost contact but at that I was close friends with one of his family members and became close to extended members of his family. He had mention to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he behave the way he does?

I dated this guy for 3 years...Best friends for 5 total. Well he basically cheated on me by asking another girl for dirty pics, he never got them but still I won't tolerate. We break up he rebounds and has a one night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I say to my ex's mom? and would she tell him we're talking?

my ex bf's mom and I have started talking via email because I sent her a request to donate money for a charity I'm involved with. she gave last year and that's why I sent her a request again this year, even though her son...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex girlfriend is back, what should I do?

I am in a huge dilemma and don't know what to do.. I am in a relationship 4 years back with a girl fro 2 years and she left me by saying that she loves somebody else and we had broke. I really love her and it took, for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend - I'm so confused by his aggressive behavior! I haven't done anything to him, he has!

I've told my (ex) boyfriend something personal and he promised me never to tell anyone. He confessed to me that he's told my secret some random girl at college... we cried on the phone and I broke up with him, although we...

CoutingStars

Xper 5 Age: 38

Should I hold on or move on from my ex?

I was in an 8 month relationship with a man I confident I was going to marry and he asked me if I wanted to start a life with him. Well he's currently going through a divorce and a custody battle with a woman who harasses...

Beck20

Xper 5 Age: 39

Society & Politics

How to over come the mind games? How to react and what to do.

Hey everyone, I'm not one for relationships and I never knew what mind games were until meeting this girl online over a game. At the start we hit it off pretty well she would would make contact all the time she stated I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Your Feelings Don't Matter

Listen, I'm just a guy. I was born with testosterone, a propensity for growing hair on my back, and a lack of vocabulary to explain my feelings. And what I can't explain I don't discuss. And yet I DO have...

bobair

Influencer Age: 51

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How do I stand my ground this time?

Last year, my freshman year in college, I met this guy who I really liked. We started talking more because he was sick and needed someone to help with a paper, so he payed me to write it for him. That was supposed to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Confusing ex boyfriend?! Who still likes me? Guys help!

My ex an I barely dated a month. I was his first girlfriend. He randomly broke up with me saying he's not mature enough for a relationship and even told his a mutual friend it wasn't something I did that I am an amazing...

Anonymous

(30-35)