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Guys, not sure if my guy friend is being friendly or flirting. Help?

Right, so, I have this guy friend. We've been friends for about a year and we get along REALLY WELL. And even though I don't go to the same College anymore, I still go once a week to see him. Now, here's where I get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I tell him I like him?

Okay. It's the end of sophomore year & ever since the first day of high school , I'very had a crush on this guy. We played on the same sports team for 2 years now , & I've gotten to know him & his family a lot. Sometimes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Yesterday was my crush and mine's last class together. We still have more finals throughout the week. What should I do?

I moved to the front of the class in mid-february and sat by a quiet and pretty Mexican girl. We didn't speak the first week, but I introduced myself the next week after class and we became class buddies. By the end of...

TexanVaquero

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

How does he feel about me?

My crush is not a shy guy (in fact very confident, maybe TOO confident), but he did the following to me: - flirts with me/teases me on a daily basis, tries to get my attention all the time (but could be because I "fight"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How can I get my long time crush to notice me since we will be seeing each other all week. How can I make him more attracted to me?

My long time crush and friend, and I are in a performing arts show together. We talk occasionally but not as much as I would like to. I will be seeing him this entire week and thursday- Sunday I will be around him for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Does my crush like me? Claimed in the past that he would like to avoid workplace romance due to unpleasant past experiences.

BACKGROUND ON CRUSH Very outgoing, not afraid to speak his mind (or so he appears), single, claimed in the past that he would like to avoid workplace romance due to unpleasant past experiences THE GOOD - flirts with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is being jealous okay?

I know it's kind of a stupid question, but I'm still going to ask it anyways. I'm a really shy person, so I can never get myself to go speak or sit next to my crush. So I'll just sit alone somewhere and awkwardly stare at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Do you notice it?

My crush and & are a part of the same group at college. We always hang out after a lecture or at lunch... When we all talk in such settings he tends to stand net to me and get as close as possible (his chest "laying"...

Oxymorian88

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Why is my crush so hot and cold towards me?

I don't understand my crush. He acts so hold and cold towards me. It frustrates me so much. Sometimes he acts like he likes me and other times he completely ignores me or trys to talk to me as little as he possibly can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What NOT to do while in a relationship

I think it's fair to say I have been in my fair share of bad situations with girlfriends. Some were filled with spite and done on purpose, but a lot of the time they had no idea what they did wrong. Here is my list of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Guy's Behavior

I've liked this guy for about 9 months now. I feel like i'm wasting my time?

I am not the type of person that likes guys often because I am very picky (not that I don't have crushes there has just been just 1 other guy besides this one that I could see myself with). I feel like I have wasted the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Long distant friend thinks i'm creepy and weird, what do I do?

A really close friend of mine that moved awhile back thinks i'm creepy and weird and I don't know what to do! We talk like everyday whether it be texting or calling, and the other day I got curious wondering if she had a...

ViLexCaLi

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Please help me! I can't tell if he likes me or just sees me as a friend?

I don't know if my crush (who I work with) likes me. He is so confusing and shy. Here are some things that make me think that he likes me: - One time, he flirted with one of the girls that we both work with. However, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What could this dream have been about?

So first this what happened earlier in the day. I was at school with my frineds and I had went to put my stuff up in my classroom. When I walked in there were two guys with no shirts on, the teacher, and some people from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Awkward crushing situation?

Ok so when I was small I liked a boy (I even kissed him on the cheeks) but he did not like me. I had to leave the school I was in and go to another that is a few kilometers away. Me and the boy did not have any other...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Does my best friend like me as more than a friend? I've had a crush on him since we first met?

I've know my best guy friend (Let's call him J) for about 7 months now (I'm a girl) and I've liked him since I first met him. My best girl friend ( let's call her R) thinks that we should just go out because everyone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I've know my best guy friend (Let's call him J) for about 7 months now (I'm a girl) and I've liked him since I first met him. My best girl friend ( let's call her R) thinks that we

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Guy's Behavior

Does my co-worker like me or is he just like my previous crushes?

There is this guy that I work with that I really like but I don't know if he is just being really nice to me or if he likes me back. I have had experiences like this before and they have turned out that they didn't like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Girls, What do you think?

Girl had a prev crush on me (hard one about 7-8months before), but had 1 boyfriend ever since. We still had relation, which consisted of laughing, laughing, emotional rollercoasters'for her) and laughing. Now today again,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Girls, how do I approach this girl I like?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I've been in school with this girl since kindergarten. Her name is Rachel. But i barely know her. This year, i don't have ANY classes with her. But i discovered that i have a MAJOR

I've been in school with this girl since kindergarten. Her name is Rachel. But i barely know her. This year, i don't have ANY classes with her. But i discovered that i have a MAJOR crush on her a while ago. But anyways, i feel as if i should get to knoe her better before i make a move. But now, after not having any classes with her, i may have found an opening. I recently became part of a new circle of friends that is a combination of a few of my guy friends and a few girls. My friend Gavin linked with his GF, Hailey's, friend group. So now it consists of me, my best friend Kenny, Gavin and Hailey, her best friend Macy, Rachel, and a few other people. I've started to get more comfortable around Hailey and Macy, but whenever i hang out with them all, Rachel is really quiet. I've never had a direct conversation with Rachel, only group conversations in which she was involved. She also will intentionally avoid eye contact with me. Why? I have no idea. I thought maybe its because she is embarrassed to look at me... but that might just be wishful thinking :/
Anyways (sorry for ranting), i have to options:

Option 1: I try to remain friendly with Rachel, and get to know her better by hanging out with the friend group more often, and hopefully working my way up to getting her number and having one-on-one conversations. The only risk with this is that she may think that i have no interest in her, and that i only see her as a friend, and completely dissmiss the idea of us being together and ruin my chances.
Option 2: I can be an obvious flirt, by staring at her and maybe smiling, and complimenting her, and making it obvious that i like her. The only risk with this is that it may seem as if I'm coming on too strong, because again, i don't know her that well. She might think I'm a creep for flirting since we barely know eachother. Also, it may be hard for me to work up the courage to do these things.

So girls, which do you think i should do? Which would get me better chances with her?

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Flirting

How to flirt with a gym instructor/personal trainer?

Hi everyone, I recently joined a gym and one of their personal trainers is really gorgeous, he's the youngest, so he's around my age. He teaches quite a few classes, including one to improve flexibilty. I am very...

Anonymous

(25-29)