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So. I’ve been hearing this discussion a lot. So I want to see what you girls think. The good guy/jerk guy question? It’s not that simple I know.

I’ll give you some background. First girlfriend, and was the love of my life, so I wanted to do everything for her. But she lost interest, and we ended up breaking up. (More things than that, but look at my last question). I read an article on here about tension, or playing it “hard to get”, but that feels like it means that I’m not interested in a serious relationship. I want to do better this time, any advice is helpful🤣

How many times do you come across a post and it's some girl explaining why nice guys are bad, bad boys are good, blah, blah, blah and you'll see the male equivalent bashing some arch typal traditional man as a toxic male epitome and that the good male puts ladies first blah blah blah. It's everywhere. It's as prevelant as the sloganeering, you know when some clueless jerk picks up some culty mantra cliche off a pop culture forum "men suicide rates blah blah blah" completely disingenuous, just a layer to throw over some BS feelings. The two are just two sides of the same coin really. It's the person trying to artificially construct a false pretense to justify themselves. Notice the bottom line usually says it all people. "Nice guys, you aren't man enough!" = "You are not even" = "I want more" It's a justification and it's achieved by rationalization. The "not man enough" bit is nothing more than an illusion to trick your mind into missing whats actually being said, hypergamy. You'll see this all the time, when people start to crumble when they are trying to create false reasoning, you'll see logic go out the window, giant leaps in thought and articulation, you'll be looking at a picture that looks like it was shot by a tommy gun.

Not saying you should hate anybody. Its a natural mechanism to the human. No one likes it but its there to protect people from their own innate realizations. They don't want to be hypergamous, they just really feel tempted by it. So much that they say "nice guys blah blah blah" its obviously stupid. Women in their best state of mind dont want "a bad boy" a bad boy is somebody who is either deeply traumatized or is a sociopath. They are everything a man isn't.

You think so?