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If your future MIL did all this would you have forgiven her:
- She meddled in the relationshhip and gossip about you but smile in your face
- She insulted you, called you a loser and made you cry in anger on your girlfriend's b-day
- She said ''When my daughter goes back to her country, she'll find better than you''
- She separates your girlfriend from you by taking her to their homecountry for good. Your girlfriend is only guilty of not having the guts to stand up to you and the relationship. She was 19/20 years old at the time.
- You would have to do the whole process of even bringing her back, which cost money
- She faked both an apology/reconciliation and a friendship with you for years; only so you can bring money and gifts for both her and her daughter... friendship out of convenience
- Present-day: you're in your mid 30's (3 years older than her) and neither of you are happily married with kids
- There were no better men than you in her country, none.. she never fell in love with anyone else either
- She wasted your girlfriend's time, delayed yours and her time, destroyed your future with her

The guy did forgave her years later but would you if you were him?

She's older than me (34), has been married for 6 years and has 2 (teen sons) kids.

It's been already 8 years since she fully forgave both her now MIL and SIL. They used to treat her terrible, gossip about her to others while smiling in her face and tried to break them up twice. One day they both regretted what they did, asked for forgiveness and according to her, never went back to their old ways. Over time, their connection got reestablished and by now she considers them her 2nd family. She adores them now.

She has forgiven and befriended a couple former school bullies too. She gets along and likes them too. I asked why because it seems silly to me to actually forgive and forget those who were horrible... then to actually like them, wow.

She explains that their apologies were followed by actions and that as long as the wrongdoer learns, never does it again and continues being a better person not just to her but others, that's enough apology and no further apology nor groveling is needed is by then. She believes in 2nd chances if they learned and really mean it. Is she still veing very naive?

I went to school to take my stupid FSA
Then after I took the test I had to wait for my Mom to come and get me
While waiting this group of girls just walked over in front of me and started talking crap and pointing and staring
They were talking crap like I wasn't right behind them
Then they kept doing this high pitched giggle... eghhhh it was so annoying

I’m 23 and I have my own studio, however parents plan soon move to a very far city 2 hours away middle of nowhere. My brother lives there with his wife but his wife’s family gossip a lot & his wife don’t let my brother talk to me as she gets jealous. I have a year & more we don’t talk. Last year I lived with brother & wife for a month & I got more anxiety & stress. I had no life, everything was far & had go daily to brothers sisters house where I was ignored left out. I live 20 min away from boyfriend. But we aren’t at stage yet to live together but he visits studio each time we go for date, he doesn’t even eat at rest aunts with me now we eat in my studio. I have a cousin that moved to Florida he’s my same age & has his apartment alone. Whole life I had follow bro & wife to all their dates as a child & follow wife’s parties events with her family. I feel now I shud have own new life with boyfriend I don’t deserve be black sheep following them forever like a robot. Parents plan move to far city & I feel sad y they need move 2 hours away. I’m also tired don’t want be sleeping in moms same bed just following parents as I’m 23 not a 5 year old kid. I would feel depresed & not like a woman independent but a child. I also don’t want live alone forever I feel everyone needs a partner. A lot of times i get stress to be alone 24/7 in my small studio. So boring. I don’t have friends a lot of girls have been mean to me & just gone with their bfs. My best friend is my boyfriend.

Those are the types of people that can have a good conversation and smile in your face but gossip and talk bad about you with others... behind your back.

Isn't that cowardly? I find that low class behavior.