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Hi there,

Can a guy fake affection?

I met a guy that is really attractive. We went on “two dates” and had a good time, we have things in common and we laugh a lot. He knows i’m dating other guys and I know he started dating a girl. We are not compatible in more meaningful things like he doesn’t like to take risks in relationship and thinks things through a lot. Me, on the other side, I’m more impulsive.

Like I said this guy is really attractive. We kissed in the second date and it was amazing. I saw him yesterday and we saw a movie in my house. Nothing happened. So I asked him if he was weirded out about our third date, he told me that he didn’t wanted to assume anything and that he wasn’t sure if I wanted as a friend ( We discussed our other dates) I told him I was seeing what happens. He knows I want something more serious and he said that he can’t rush into things because it has happened in the past and that he doesn’t want anyone to get hurt. I told him I didn’t wanted to stop seeing the other guys but that I wasn’t going to get intimate with him, because we weren’t sure of what we wanted.

We started kissing and he was really affectionate. He caressed my hair a lot and gave me kisses in my face. The kisses were passionate but also very sweet, he kissed me on my belly and in my forehead a couple of times. He caressed my hair a lot and stared at me a couple of times with a smile. He was smiling and I asked him if he was laughing about my messy hair- he said he was happy- although things got pretty heated he didn’t undressed me and interrupted things to help me with a uni work he knew I was working on.

After that we kissed a bit. We kissed passionately goodbye and that was it.

He was really affectionate, like my boyfriends haven’t kissed me so much or with so much affection. He really took the time and the kisses were sweet although they were passionate. Can he be faking it? He has expressed a coupl

I'm 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend (or anything similar) before. I've never had any attraction towards anyone before a couple months ago. He is pretty good friends with two of my best friends, and they both say he's really nice and whatnot.
What I don't understand is he stares at me a lot. If I'm near him talking to someone, he watches me the whole conversation/time he's around. I'll look over in band class, and he will turn around occasionally when he's talking to his friends and look at me. Last weekend at a band function, every time I would look over at him, he'd be looking at me and smile really shyly (hasn't done it since). We don't really talk all that often, and when we do, he laughs a lot at everything I say (?). If I try and start a conversation, he seems kind of uncomfortable, but if he starts it, he seems? proud? to talk to me.
I'm not attractive (being honest), so is he just staring at me because he wants to throw up or something like? I don't have any idea what I'm experiencing. ? Help Please?