Yes, it's irrational. First of all, why do you ask? If you're gonna get hurt, don't ask.
You HAVE to know that he's still gonna find other women attractive, just like you find other men attractive. Finding other women attractive doesn't mean he'd leave you for them, it just means she has features he thinks are attractive.
Look at it this way: bananas are your favorite fruit, but you also like apples and pear. Does this mean you'd trade a banana for an apple or a pear? No, cause you like bananas much more, that's why their your favorite.
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Celebrities are just the perfect people we can never have, of course people like them. But we always know we can't have them, he just probably finds her physically attractive. You have something that celebrity will never have, the emotional bond you two have formed.
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We have the same issues! I really hate this feeling! I don't get jealous that easily tho but her celebrity crush always make me insecure. I am really faithful to my boyfriend and believe me or not I don't have a celebrity crushes because I know how it will affect my relationship, and it will make my partner insecure and jealous. Some I may find attractive (and all of them are females, I really don't find celebrity men attractive at all). My boyfriend is the only handsome man for me along with my dad. He's very matured, skillful, respectful, and a loving partner. He also compliments me, always saying how beautiful I am from the inside to the outside. He tells me how much he wanted to spend his entire life with me and how much he loves me more than I can ever imagine. And our relationship is really healthy tho but we both are always busy so we barely spend time together. I really don't mind him finding celebrities or someone attractive tho but her celebrity crush makes me really jealous. I know it's immature but often times I cry whenever I see my boyfriend react on her celebrity crush's post. She's really beautiful and sexy, she have hourglass body shape (big boobs and butt), a natural thick brows and long lashes and a jet black hair. While me I am a total opposite of her, I am flat, skinny but have a bigger tummy. Often times I compare myself to her. My boyfriend always have time to react on her post but do not have time to spend with me even just a simple chat (I am not really a materialistic person tho, a smallest things like a simple text and chat from him can make me happy throughout the day). I always feel unimportant whenever he says he's busy but you can see him reacting on his celebrity crush's post. I always seek for his attention but he gives it freely to his celebrity crush. This one time he told me how he can't forget the time when she sees her in personal at the mall. She told me that she's not that tall but she's very beautiful and it really makes me uncomfortable and sad. I know that I am not nothing compared to her and I don't know if I will ever be my boyfriends ideal type.
It's irrational but also makes sense. You can't control the feeling of comparison. I think my girlfriend has asked me similar questions and I reply with 'she hot yh' or something similar and then I realise she was probably asking because she's comparing herself.
The likelihood is your boyfriend finds her attractive and toned down his feelings because your his girlfriend. He can't be that dense to not realise the basis of the question.
by the way whoever says it completely irrational is bullshitting. Everyone feels this trust me. People prefer to hide the feeling to look less hurt or strong.Listen... don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answer to. Also it's kinda weird/controlling that you're getting upset that he acknowledges that beautiful women are beautiful. It doesn't even sound like he has a "celebrity crush", just that he has eyes.
Girl I felt the same way about scarlet Johansson two of my ex’s had crushes on her and she is gorgeous there’s nothing I could do about it.. it’s normal to feel sad I did too but
do you have any male crushes? Maybe that can help you understand he didn’t mean any harm by it.
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