It's tough when your boyfriend pays attention to someone else, especially if he compliments them. You might be wondering if you should be upset that he called another girl beautiful.
There are a few things to consider before getting too upset.
First, it's important to remember that compliments are a normal part of interactions between people. It's perfectly normal for your boyfriend to give compliments to other people, as long as he's also complimenting you.
Second, you should think about the context of the compliment. If he was simply paying someone a compliment in passing, then there's no need to be upset. However, if he was staring at the other girl or making a point to tell her how beautiful she is, then you might have reason to be upset.
Third, you should consider how you feel about the situation. If you're feeling insecure or jealous, then you might be overreacting to the situation. However, if you feel confident in your relationship and trust your boyfriend, then you probably don't have anything to worry about.
In the end, it's up to you to decide whether or not you should be upset that your boyfriend called another girl beautiful. If you have a good relationship and trust your boyfriend, then you probably don't have anything to worry about. However, if you're feeling insecure or jealous, then you might want to talk to him about your concerns.
I wouldn't worry, don't jump to conclusions, maybe she is just a friend. Just because he said she is beautiful doesn't mean that he is doing something wrong, I tell my friends they are goodlooking all the time, its not in a sexual way. He is probly acting irratated because he feels like you don't trust him and are jumping to conclusions...did you see anything else that made you curious? And just try calmly starting a convo about it...you ccould even say something like dang your right she is beautiful, how do you know her?
My boyfriend calls his female best friend beautiful all the time. They've been best friends far longer than I've known him, so it doesn't bother me. He'll even answer the phone with her saying "Hey beautiful!" It doesn't bother me, but I guess it depends on the situation too
well if he is letting you see it that probably means that he isn't trying to hide anything from you and doesn't mean it in a sexual way. just remember that you're the one he wants to be with, not her, and I'm sure he thinks you are even more special than she is
Yes, you should be upset! Think about it, how would he feel if he knew you were calling other guys handsome or sexy. I say sexy because in mens eyes, sexy is almost as equal to what guys like being called as women do being called beautiful. I did a poll on that, and I thought it would be handsome, but turns out it was sexy haha.
He would be really pissed off that you would do something like that, right? Well then, you should be allowed to get mad when he calls other girls beautiful.
dont be just stay confident and have this on your mind " whatever he throws at you or when he compliments a girls its another good karma" becuase if you threat a woman like crap you know the deal what goes around comes around. stay positive and he will want you more trust me.
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There are lots of beautiful girls in the world. Maybe he was just being nice and stating a fact.
It depends on the context. Was he just trying to reassure her and make her feel good about herself or was he stalking or flirting with her?
I'm married but I've told girls on-line, on GAG that they are beautiful when appropriate. I'm certainly not hitting on them.
Even when I'm in public with my wife, I look at pretty girls and she doesn't care because she knows I love her and would never cheat.
I'm sure you are beautiful, but he loves you for more than your looks. And he didn't say he thought she was prettier than you.
If you don’t like him doing that that. Tell him you don’t. if he respects you he won’t do it.
as yes it could be taken the wrong way. But could be just nice comment.
long if he has nice compliments to you that the main thing.
It’s when he says it to other girls and not you. Only you then you should start worrying.
I personally I wouldn’t like it. As my partner doesn’t really comment compliment lot on my looks in general on Facebook more love hearts it keeps it simple.
If he did and it a girl posing with the looks for attention then I wouldn’t like it has he rarely comments compliments like that in general.
I know a lot of swingers, and my girlfriend even has a side dynamic, but here is the question: your SO is coming home with you, right? At the end of the day they're in your bed and in your... You, right? Then who cares if they look at what else is out there? When they come home with you, it means they CHOOSE you. When they play with someone else and they come home in the morning, it's because they CHOOSE you!
Would you rather someone just be with you because it's convenient or because they WANT to be with you?
Here's a fact no one wants to admit,
Everyone in a relationship finds other members of the opposite gender attractive outside of the person they're dating, yes girls too... It's literally impossible to only find the person you are dating attractive.
Human nature is to find anyone who looks hot.. to be hot.., even if you are taken.. we can't help that.
The difference is only when you act upon those urges and go out of your way to cheat.
So jus because he's a normal human guy who finds other girls hot... Isn't that weird, since he's only letting his secret be known... A secret you wasn't even suppose to know... It's only wrong if he proceeds with more than just that compliment
As much as I don't like seeing that compliment... I mean, it's just a compliment. Compliments happen, it may not be flirting. Sometimes people say these things to acknowledge them, not to get people to like them. That's what you need to look out for. The motive.
So just because he's with you he can't find someone beautiful? I've been with my boyfriend 10 years. Doesn't mean I don't find other men attractive and sometimes tell them. Or that he hasn't called other girls beautiful. If something looks good we admire it. No harm in that
Are you really 31? I'm surprised.
Or is this a troll post? I'm confused.
I don't understand these girls. What's wrong with a simple compliment? If he hasn't cheated on you, what's wrong with having a social life?
I think he should break up with you.
I call girls beautiful in front of my boyfriends so... I wouldn't be upset... UNLESS he is known to nevwr comment... but how would I know unless obsessively stalking him.
I don't think there's any reason here to be upset. We will always find other people beautiful/handsome/attractive even when we're dating and madly in love with our partners.
Yeah, I can definitely understand why you’re upset about that. This isn’t something he should be doing while he’s in a relationship.
If it upsets you, then yes you are right to be upset!
It feels like cheating whenever I tell another girl she looks beautiful for no reason. A good reason would be if she was in a wedding dress. In any other case it's just random hitting on.
Really depends on the context. Is she his sis or a close friend?
I just had this happen where I found out my boyfriend of 5 years commented on a photo of a woman that she is gorgeous. This was 3 years ago and that woman is his ex wife. I’ve been wondering if I should be upset too
No need to take it the extreme. He just gave a compliment.
No overreacting he is just stating a fact if he was up to something he would not say it in front of you
Absolutely not. You weren't born yesterday, neither was he.
Should you feel an emotion? That's up to you, not us. Have a chat with him and tell him you don't like that.
No not unless he's talking to her romantically speaking. Otherwise its just a compliment
Does he not call you beautiful?
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