He called another girl beautiful?

[Anonymous]

Would you be upset if a guy you were seeing called another girl beautiful but he never compliments you? Why do guys do this :(

[Anonymous]

Depends on how he called her beautiful. If he made a comment about an actress or something it is completely innocent. If he told her to her face, then I can see why that would upset you.

Every time we compliment you girls, by calling you beautiful, hot, or sexy we are made to feel like you believe we only care about the way you look. This makes it hard for a guy to feel comfortable to give you these types of compliments. It isn't like guys get complimented like that all the time either. If you don't talk that way to us, then why would we think it is okay to talk to you that way to you?

[Asker]

I do compliment him

[Opinion Owner]

Why can't I find a girl that knows how to give a compliment?

[Frostie]

Women are bullsh*tters. They don't know what they want half the time and usually when they say they wants something they do the opposite. The Best you can do is ignore it and let the crazy transcend into a calm. Many gauge what you think of them and play games, they aren't straight forward and never will be. They are drama in short. Probably the worst communicators on the planet and best manipulators.

[Asker]

unfortunately there's dumb girls in this world just like there are boys...

[Asker]

@Frostie

If you hate women so much then go gay

[Zodiac988]

STAB HIM.

[Anonymous]

I had boyfriend exactly like this, 2 years! not complimenting me every pretty girl around yes. it made me thinking I'm not beautiful, not worth anything.. I broke up with him after 2 years and now have new love, he's more handsome than my ex boyfriend and calls me beautiful very often, I don't have to ask for compliments anymore, and I regret being 2 years unhappy with previous boyfriend.

[Asker]

It definitely knocks down your self confidence a few notches that's for sure..I hate being this unhappy

[Opinion Owner]

and such boys never change, I said him 100 times that I like compliments, he could say somethimes, .. but it was like talking to a brick wall.

[Asker]

Yes agreed! This guy is the same way. Frustrating to say the least because I'm always saying something nice to him

[upsyndrome]

no, I don't need validation. I don't need a guy to tell me I'm beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, hot, sexy, cute. ect.. I mean if he's with me he has to see something in me he doesn't see in someone else, right? I would be upset, though, if I found out he settled for me. If he felt he couldn't do any better than me. :\

[Frostie]

Well at least you get it.

[Frostie]

someone has insecurities that needs to be dealt with. There's this thing called admiration and lust. They are two different things. I can say anything about someone. "You're really cool" then someone like you might be like "waaaa, he hates me waaaa". Just accept that the world doesn't revolve around you,and quit freaking out over stupid sh*t. Well judging by how you probably freak out all the time over stuff like this, I'd be less inclined to compliment you. especially if you don't think so about yourself. Even then if he doesn't, he is still with you, so that has more meaning than it does a few words. I'd rather have someone who sticks around, then talks sh*t 24/7 about how 'cute' or whatever they think of me, then go sleep around with someone else. Either way, whatever. Moving on to the next question.

[Asker]

I'm freaking out because I want him to show me more admiration than other girls? Okay buddy. Obviously you have some pent up anger about never getting laid

[Frostie]

haha, yeah its easy to blame other people for your problems, or try to apply a certain issue with a person for giving you a blunt answer. Never getting laid? Funny last I checked I refused 10 girls. Not my issue. Although I'm not the one with boyfriend who doesn't think you're worth a compliment. so hey best of luck with your 'omg he won't admire me more'. eh you deserve it.

[Asker]

lol typical douchebag saying he could've gotten laid by 10 girls... Exaggeration much?

[Frostie]

Call it exaggeration if you want, I haven't got anything to prove to you.Your opinion isn't really worth to much either. At the end of the day, its only women wanting attention from men, not vice versa. Men will get the attention irrespective to your needs. Women back stab each other far more. Men usually don't. Point blank, you're a drama queen and freaking out over something stupid. If you want someone to kiss your ass daily go buy a wuss at your local feminist rally.

[Frostie]

A confident person doesn't need the approval of others to 'feel good'. The only thing I see are your insecurities and attempts to justify your bf's behaviors. What kind of a guy he is, Idk,and Idc, maybe he doesn't care, maybe he does. If you don't like it, end it,or even better, talk to him.

[Asker]

who said I'm a feminist? Seriously your the biggest woman hater I've ever met! Your an egotistical narcissistic douchebag..10 women wanting to sleep with you? HIGHLY DOUBT THAT! ..10 women wanting to kick your nuts off..now that I believe!

[Frostie]

I never said you were. I said if you want a wuss to compliment you every day, go buy one there, there's plenty of emasculated men around. Woman hater? No, not hater, just reality. Women don't know what they want. You've never met me, you've only typed to me over a social network. Haha, believe what you will, but as I said, that is opinion. And as I said before, at the end of the day, only he knows. If you have an issue talk to him, not to others about it.

[Asker]

Just because a man compliments a woman doesn't mean he's emasculated..it means he's being sweet and wanting the girl he's with to feel special. A jerk like you wouldn't understand the difference.

[Frostie]

I never said that either. I said if you want an emasculated man who kisses your ass and does everything for you, which is what I meant by 'kissing ass' and worshipping you because you have a vagina, not because you have a personality worth respecting. As I said, quit making drama, and being insecure, and talk to HIM about it over talking to us, because frankly we can't read his f'n mind. Stupid questions annoy the f*** out of me. Oh of course I don't know.. pff whatever. Your insecurities.

[Asker]

I'm causing drama? lol it sounds like your the drama queen going off on a stupid rant here

[Frostie]

Don't ask stupid questions and you won't be lectured. You don't like the answer, not my problem. I didn't see anything funny in your statement so you're probably annoyed. As I said, drama starts with inviting a third person into your personal life. If you have a problem with your boyfriend, then talk to him. don't talk about him to others. You have self esteem issues.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're not that attractive. Obviously, the other girl would be worthy enough to be called beautiful.

[Asker]

harsh

[Opinion Owner]

...but true.

[12elizabeth]

or maybe he doesn't have the scrotum to tell it to your face

[Opinion Owner]

Him? That doesn't make any sense at all.

[Anonymous]

Cuz he is a retard?