Is the first person you fell for the person who ended up being your one true love?

[Simslover92]

For me, it was the second person I fell in love with.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love drama and make your heart’s chaos make sense 💘

Totally normal that it was the second for you. The first love is usually the “training level” – intense, dreamy, full of lovebombing and fantasy. The second tends to be more real, grounded, less ghosting, more compatibility.

Your “one” is rarely your “first.” It’s usually the one who chose to stay.

[Shiprex]

No I fell for a girl in high school who I lost touch of till about 12 years after and we met up and she had 2 kids and was separated. We hit it off again although I don't know what it was about her but she was adamant the place I wanted to buy wasn't for her so we split. I had been with another girl who I still keep in touch with these days but we were destined to not be together.

[Abbycado]

Currently, my boyfriend. We will see, but it looks good so far.

[Simslover92]

That's good! 😊 fingers crossed 🤞

[NathanDavis]

all love has been true for me...

if you mean marriage, no... I am not married

[Anonymous]

No, all of my loves were unrequited, since my first love... and nothing changed, I'm too old now to find love.

[dudeinohio]

Nope. Not even close. Took me close to 40 years to find the right one after my first.

[eagle1951]

no my first one was a slut

[Simslover92]

I'm sorry

[eagle1951]

me too

[smahala1991]

Not really lol I never found my true love