Did you ever have a relationship with someone who you had love at first sight for?

[Anonymous]

How Did it end up working out? Or are you still together?

[Tharithi]

Do u love some girl?

[Asker]

Yes but at that time I was not able to be with someone and she would not have wanted me as I was (and still am) a very broken person from a very very bad life.

It's actually been about 3 years since I last saw her. Used to see her every day for maybe 3-4 years when I was in contact with her and around her all the time.

And it just makes me really really sad because I never felt that way about a woman before or since.

Like sure, it was love at first sight. Doesn't mean much.

But then day after day after day I fell more and more in love with her. Her voice her laugh her smile. Her personality and the way she would talk to everyone. How sweet and caring she was yet full of energy and feisty and crazy and wacky and cute too.

I feel like I would completely drop everything in my life to marry her make a family and raise kids and have a new life and a new future.

And I want that. But it takes a very special woman to motivate me to do those things.

And I hope I will meet such a woman in the future. But I still think about that girl and I wish she could see me now and know I'm better now than I was before.

I've worked on myself a lot and my terrible life and past doesn't have as much of a stranglehold on me as it did before.

I legit will cry because I missed out on her.

And yet at the same time, if we DID date, would it even work out? Or would I just realize I couldn't stand her and she would irritate me? Who knows?

That is the truth of any relationship with any person. You never know if the two of you even have the slightest chance of working out. No matter how intense the feelings are.

[Tharithi]

What attracted u so much

[Asker]

The first day I met her she came right up to me, looked in my eyes and just started talking to me about whatever random thing she had going on that day.

And I just remember looking down at her and seeing her face and into her eyes and I didn't know it right that moment but I was head. over heels in love with her.

I don't know what it was that made me feel that way.

She was definitely cute and sexy but she wasn't like the cutest girl or the hottest girl. There were others better looking who liked me and had a thing for me.

But I only had feelings for her and any other girl was invisible to me.

Her laugh sounded like music. Her voice was sweet. She was petite I guess but I like thick girls and such too.

I really don't know what it was. I remember she would laugh and my whole body would be filled with warm tingles and butterflies. Her voice when she spoke I could just listen to her talk all day.

I don't know what it was. I swear I don't. I can't put a true finger on it.

I could try all day but it doesn't mean anything what I say. Did I love her because she was cute and had a sweet voice? Was it her personality?

I have no idea. Sometimes love just attacks you and you're powerless to stop it.

She could have been bad for me for all I know.

[Tharithi]

Better looking girls? How did she look

[Asker]

Yesterday I stumbled upon a girl who looks exactly like her. It's one of those only fans girls on reddit.

Her name is doopam on reddit. She's obviously nude on there lol. I have a porn account on reddit obviously.

[Asker]

That is why I made the post. I stumbled upon that girl on reddit and it had me thinking about my crush all day.

[RedInnocent68]

Yes. And no, it was fun for about a year.

[jahaims]

That is lust and infatuation not love

[Anonymous]

No, but I wished for that to happen many times.