Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

That is impossible. You cannot "love" someone just because they are super attractive and you have incredible interest.

What if you want kids, or you don't want kids? What if you are a spender and want to live it up with your more or you are super responsible and want a budget and savings and investments to grow for the future? What if you like to sleep around and experience as many people as you can? What if you believe sex is unique and special and reserved for those you want the deepest connection and exclusivity with? What if you are deeply religious and believe in Jesus or Jehovah, Allah or something else? What if you are pro abortion? What if you hate abortion? What if you are very private and want a modest mate? What if you are an exhibitionist and are ok with stripping or Onlyfans? What if you are a big drinker and like to party and get drunk a lot? What if you don't drink much and you are against heavy drinking or drug use?

Now, you see some gorgeous person who makes you melt. In your head you are making up some personality and moral code to this mystery person. One where they are kind, loyal, respectful, funny, easy going and they have all the traits you want. That is just made up.

Let's say after meeting them and getting to know them they are the exact opposite of every one of your moral codes and belief systems I listed above? You two would obviously have no future and you'd end up hating each other eventually. Because you didn't really KNOW them. You are just fawning over their beautiful face and body and their eyes and all of the made up stuff you come up with in your head.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, when I was fourteen I had a crush on this girl back in school and she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen in person - an accolade that still stands till date.

From the moment she walked in late to class I immediately found her extremely attractive and knew she was my type, I had a dream once that I went to her house and we hugged.

Unfortunately the crush didn’t work out and ultimately crashed, bombed and failed but the point is love at first sight is very much a real thing that can happen to people.

In fact psychologists say that if the feeling of a crush persists for more than four months than it’s equal to the feeling of being in love.

So technically when you think about it if you have a crush on someone (or at-least someone you barely know) and the feeling lasts longer than four months then it’s very similar (if not the same thing) to be being in love with them.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

Sure have, when I first saw my wife at a place we both used to work at. I thought she was the prettiest girl I'd ever seen and I just had to get to know her so I approached her.

PrincessC16 · Accepted Answer

Yes, with my boyfriend. I was head over hills and completely invested from the start.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Usually it’s lust at first sight & love happens down the road after you really get to know the individual.

serious · Answer

No. Never. Never been in love even otherwise

Ferngully2000 · Answer

Yes, I believe so. It was intense chemistry and what made it different I think to infatuation or lust is we both felt it at the same time, so it was mutual!

Spencer10 · Answer

No never. But I do fall in lust quite regularly.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Lust? Yes, all the time. Love? No, love doesn't work like that.

MrChinaski · Answer

Sure. It takes about 10 seconds to work out if you are attracted to someone, or not.

exitseven · Answer

I did with my future wife. I never expected it and before I could get away it just happened

JHNS98 · Answer

I have. It lasted for five days and ended very badly.

Jay-_- · Answer

No. But I did see someone and there was a strong emotion for them, but that was only once, and that definitely wasn't me falling in love.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yes, twice. I felt the connection across the room a third time, but neither of us approached each other

blackeagle007 · Answer

They say men fall in love with what they see. I digress, spending time is what’s on the table

Simslover92 · Answer

Not really.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Every time I go to the gym at peak hours.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Potentially I have many times 👀 👀 👀

Wiredone · Answer

Yes I did and I married her 30 years ago

Jove79 · Answer

Yes! It was a triple cheese burger with bacon..

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not love but maybe lust!

noohair · Answer

That is how it happens with me.

Eempriyanka · Answer

Yes.. when I saw his eyes

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it happened to me several times.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe when I was young and silly.

missindiana93 · Answer

Nope

darlingRose · Answer

Naah

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope.

Dongie · Answer

About 50 times!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

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