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My guy friend of 3 years has always been super attentive to me, sweet, devoted like a puppy. He is always as close to me as he can get and touches my upper arm, shoulders, lower back, lets his hand rest too long on mine if he hands me st, holds eye contact forever, has played with my hair, notices EVERY little thing about my appearance, has fed me off his spoon after he'd used it, presses his arms/thighs into mine when we sit side by side and he's said he loves me, just not romantically. We tease each other a LOT and he calls me "girl"/"woman" and pretends like he's mad. He wanted to buy me a gift for "putting up with" him. He told me recently that I've been his other fave person (besides gf) for two yrs. he's been with her 18 mos.

We've both been taken the whole time we've been friends but we have become emotionally intimate and it feels like more than just friends. We messaged and texted ALL summer and talked about everything under the sun, deep stuff, silly jokes, how he's bored with his gf and wants to be free this year to "kindle new flames". He's asked me about sexual things I might be into, like bdsm, hook ups with friends, 3ways, pd sex, but the racier the q, the more he plays it off like jk, wasn't REALLY asking! But he's told me he likes me boobs and complains that gf has a boys body. He's asked me to brush stuff off his butt and never moves away if I put my hand on his thigh or play his hair/stroke his face. He's shown every sign of liking me but won't make a move. He says he hates cheaters but aren't we already cheating emotionally? He said he couldn't take the shame of kissing another girl while he has a gf. He said he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up bc she is so in love with him, much more than he is w/her. I'm getting sick of his wallowing in misery when he could just end it if he really is as unsatisfied as he says. I told him today that I think it's unrealistic to think one person could meet all your needs/desires. What should I do?

I'm super torn here, please read. one of my best friends has a huge crus on one of my really close guy friends. we tell each other everything. one night we were talking and I brought up my best friend and asked him how he felt about her. he said he liked her as a friend, but definitely not that way. he's still holding onto a crush he's had since kindergarten and she's still not into him. my problem is my friend non stop talks about him, and I don't know if I should tell her or not. I'm afraid it would really crush her and at the same time i don't want to lose my guy friends trust in case he doesn't want me telling her. he's not leading her on or anything like that because he would never do that nor has he ever showed any signs of liking her as more than a friend. if I don't tell her and she finds out i know I'm afraid she'll be pissed. so my question is should I tell her? or should i just continue to let her believe he might like her or she may have a chance?

This is all a very long story, but to make it short. He liked me in high school, I liked him in college. We dated briefly in high school and I broke up with him. Then we almost dated in college... except he told me he was just trying to get back at me for not liking him in high school. It was a mess. He said he was just using me to make up for his own loneliness. We never kissed or anything... it was bizarre.

Fast forward some.. I said we couldn't be friends, he begged and begged. I finally gave in b/c I realized it was doing more hurt than good... So we restarted our friendship. I hated hanging out w/ him at first b/c I didn't trust him. I kind of still don't?

He and I are really really bad at not being close friends. We actually like telling each other our secrets and hearing each other's opinions. I didn't want to be close w/ him like this ever again, but we seem to weasel our way into each other's lives no matter what. fml.

So two weeks ago I was very stressed. Over the phone he asked me when it was that I last got laid and with whom. He suggested I use it as a stress reliever. As we are NOT that close right now, I thought this was REALLY awkward! It's like he's checking in on my sex life.

Week later I got wasted and wrote him about how I thought it was a weird/awkward question. So last night... we have an ENTIRE discussion about sex and our sexual experiences. It was fine and hilarious sharing some silly things.

I just worry about getting too close with him again. I mean, where do we draw the friendship line? We both had very strong feelings for one another at some point in our lives and neither of us want to like the other again... so where do we stop telling each other things?

My crush and I are neighbours and we're from the same school. He's one year older than me and used to be my best friend. He used to like me 4-5 years ago and I seriously didn't realise his signs, I think he gave up and a few months after that he had a gf. But they broke up last year. I started liking him last year but only confessed in January 2014. After I confessed to him, he msged me and said that he only treated me no more than a best friend. After that, he started avoiding me and ignoring my message. Can anyone tell me what could possibly happen or what does he feels until he avoids me? Btw, he is not a popular guy in school as he doesn't have "qualities" that a popular guy has. I like him as he is a really nice guy, he is a good listener and he is always there for me. I dont really care about looks. Another thing, three guys which is the same age as me has a crush on me. What should I do? Continue waiting for him or choose either one of three boys?