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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. Before then, I went through a really bad break up with my ex. I tried to be friends with him or at least be on good terms before my boyfriend and I started. When David (boyfriend) and I started dating, I was still talking to my ex, not romantically but as friends. I admit I did have some feelings but I did not want to date him, those feelings weren't romantic. I admitted to those feelings to David and he left me. While we were on break, he tried to make me jealous by hanging around this new girl at our school who happened to be friends with all of his friends. We get back together, soon after I get news that I'm moving 7 hours away, we stay together. I get insecure about him sitting with his friends because of that girl. Soon, my doctor finds a large tumor, it might be cancer. I have surgery. Fast forward to April, I give my FB password to him, he accuses me of cheating. I don't cheat. He says that using emoticons is cheating, I only use emoticons when the conversation is meaningless and I'm not sure what to say. He says I'm lying. A guy says he misses talking to me and being nice, I say that I miss talking to him too, I don't mean it but I know he won't bother me again. Everyone else, were guys I was friends with years before David and I started. Week later, I drive 7 hours to go to his prom. Everything is great after prom. Weeks later he says he showed my messages to girls at his school and they all "confirm" that I was flirting, he says he can't get over that and that I didn't love hit, and he asks for a break. During break, we still talk and call each other. I showered him with love and affection. The other day he said he can't do this, that he can't trust me, and I get hysterical. After hours of us crying and me asking why, he takes back what he said and we're together again. Next day, he says this was a mistake, repeat of the night before. We're together again. He says he's scared about us not working out.

Okay so i'll try to make this quick. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 1/2 years. it's been very rocky. he cheated on me once and i chose to forgive him but i mean after that there's been situations with other women like texting but I'm not sure if flirting. anyway. i don't trust him and he's in vegas with his cousin that i don't trust him around. well, a couple weeks ago i found a text from a girl from school in his phone talking about going to a lake with them two, his cousin and friends. i found it and got pissed and he made excuses and said he was inviting her for his cousin, who also had a gf. anyway he wasn't planning on going. last week i found a text to his friend saying he was going with her to vegas and i got pissed and he said he just wanted to seem cool. and i told him to prove he isn't going by messaging the girl and seeing what she said. fast forward to today, he told me repeatedly that he wasn't going to meet up with her, and that she knows he has a gf. well, i just found out he lied. a lot. he met up with her because she got him and his friend into a pool party and supposedly thats it. but this chick, when he posts something of me on his instagram, she does not like it. and she blocked me on instagram and made her Twitter private after i told my bf i saw it. i mean if he didn't lie about meeting up with her just for that, then, i would have been mad but not as mad as i am now. he told me all day he wasn't around her and then i go on somebody's instagram thatcs that is her friend and is with her and and there my boyfriend is in the background with his friends. so i caught him. hes' done so much shady things starting last year. i have no trust in him. he's lied so many times. i love him a lot but come on. oh did i mention i messaged the girl to see whats going on and she didn't even reply. well yeh I don't know what to do. i tried trusting him and found out he was lying.

I've liked him all school year. The day I noticed him seemed to be the day he noticed me, too, but he had a girlfriend then (broke up early Feb). He broke up with her using college as an excuse, but she's also a lying slut, so that's a good possibility too. While dating her, his signs were subtle (glances, shoulder brushes, etc). After, though upset, he seemed to step up his signs in liking me. He got back together with her for a week (I didn't know this then) and acted distant to me again. This is my proof I'm not imagining it all. Depending on what's been going on, his behavior varies. There were 2 phases where he became more obvious (Feb and after Prom). After Prom was especially weird. He flirted HARDCORE (for him) and he didn't hide it. Everything he did before, he was attempting to hide it. This time even his friends saw. He blushed whenever I approached him, he initiated random convos, and he talked about me to his friends (idk what he said). Then, he started pulling away. He never appeared to hate me or anything, just like he was trying to distance himself. Last week before he graduated, I confessed. I'll post the conversation below (read that now). Word got out fast because it was a public spot (duh). I'm not being made fun of by the general population (opposite actually, I'm getting pats on the back for having the balls to ask the hottest guy in school), but his ex is trying to make me believe I am. She snickers with her friends when I pass. You know. That jealousy crap. From what I've heard (true or not) he felt like crap turning me down. Just because he's a nice guy? Or because he WANTED to say yes? The two days left afterwards, he was very awkward and was avoiding me. Not meanly. Just... You know, not sure how to act? He pretended not to be interested in me, but I already know he's been on my FB and twitter. His act was see through. So did he mean what he said? Or was he just being nice? Is it really bad timing? Or was he never interested?

I was talking with this guy, and its been like 2 months now but doesn't even feel like it. He had first asked to take me out when he messaged me on Facebook but I told him I was busy that day and he said OK well whenever you are free so I said OK. (Sn: he was in school at the time for like 4 weeks I think) well I was busy until the last week he was here but I did want to go out with him so I asked if he wanted to hang out and he said I asked him at the last minute because it was his last weekend here and I told him sorry but I was busy when he asked me the first time and I told him that I remembered he said he was tired the next weekend. I told him it was OK I understand if he didn't have the time but eventually I would like to and he said we would. The thing is he came on Strong when he first started talking to me and I had asked him what his intentions were and he said to get to know me, well we joked about sex a few times but I had hinted that I didn't want to and I believe he got it, but we joked a few more times but I thought we were just flirting and he was OK with it. But just to be sure I asked what did he want at this point in his life so I know if I could give it to him and he said he wasn't looking for anything he was wanting friendship and I said OK, but I was unsure if he was serious because he seemed interested at first, time went by and he started being distant and wasn't texting me as much because he would text me everyday and now he wouldnt, so I asked if he was interested in me at all and he said: "you think this because I don't talk to you as much" and I said no I'm just an upfront and honest person is all and he said: " I am interested but right now Im all about having a friendship and I said OK I'm absolutely fine with that and he said cool but he hasn't texted me in a week, what does this mean? Is he really interested or just said that to be nice? (Can anyone tell me what he might think of me...like is he trying to play me?)