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I moved here 9 years ago, I was 19 when I got the keys, I was positive confident and motivated to embarking on my new life.
Anyways, it started off rather miserable, I'd split from my boyfriend again. And the guy below me was causing me undue amounts of stress.

Over time I became anxious and incredibly withdrawn, I started to lose friends and well my life's basically gone downhill.
Socially anyways.

So here I am.

About to go out for a bike ride when my neighbour comes out for a chat. (nasty neighbour)

He tells me that he's moving hopefully within a few weeks. That he has had enough of some other people that have moved in as they've caused a lot of issues here.

He apologised for the way he treated me.
It's funny because I couldn't understand why he targeted me.

For a period of time I could only believe it was because I'm Black.

I'm the only single Black female in this building.

It totally destroyed me especially as I never had parties or disturbed the peace. For the most part I had a full time job so I had no time to really socialise with my neighbours.

All I can say is this is the end of an era. We shook hands and I wished him well.

I never had ill feelings towards him, I just didn't understand why he didn't leave me alone, I did start to go into a really dark place as the things he was doing really singled me out.

Yes I did report him, which is why he eventually stopped.
It seems there is light at the end of the tunnel 👍🏾

#FeelFreeToList #ThatThingTheyOftenDo
I listed examples on the poll but also feel free to list examples of your own. here's some of mine—
- He's either a gamer or an anime lover... like dammit lol. Like its not baaaad but it kinda is cause these dudes are usually obsessed with one or both. I don't know how i keep attracting gamers and shit 🤣
- He’s either atheist or hardcore trump supporter. I dont care if you're republican. I personally choose to stay out of politics. But i also dont like being constantly questioned about my religious beliefs 🤷‍♀️
- He’s either jobless or rich. And i dont mean jobless due to covid. Like a lot of dudes dont have degrees but also have no intentions of getting a job anytime soon. Like nahh.. you’re cute but we won't work. The rich dudes are on a powertrip and think they can get anything out of me with a financial bribe. Lmao they got the wrong one. I got my own (when im not wasting it at the casino) 😂
- Theyre either sexual or not at all. Like damn i may not wanna have sex witcho ass anytime soon but i still like to talk dirty. I got some kinda needs 🙈
- They either live far away or live here with their mom. I’m tired of ldr but im not against it. And the ones who live with their mom usually have no intentions of moving out within a year or less so its just disappointing. 🙄
- Found out someone I was starting to like has a kid. Now thats a new one... i mean at least its only one kid so thats not a dealbreaker. Shocked the kid is like already 8 or something. But at least the baby mama is remarried and they can't stand eachother. So yea I don't know what will happen there.