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This guy I had had a crush on since middle school finally asked me out freshman year of high school. We flirted all the time but it took him so long because he was in a relationship until 8th grade but he still flirted and wanted to be around me all the time. When we finally got together I would feel butterflies all the time. He would call me all the time but I never answered because I was too nervous but in person I could talk forever. Unfortunately I found out that he was taking to other girls so I broke it off but he still tried to call and get me to talk to him but I ignored because I was sad. But that was freshman year, I am recently graduated and over the years he always stared at me from across rooms and I felt he loved me too but he eventually he got back with the girl he was with in middle school. And I was hurt until he came into my job that his friend worked with me. And he was visiting his friend when the friend came back he asked me if u still liked the boy at the time his girlfriend worked with me so I said no in fear of being set up. But he kept asking and he said I can tell you something good he f I said yes but I was scared. Now I have a new job that I work with him and he is always staring at me and trying to start a conversation with me. I do want him but at the same time I’m tired of wanting the same old thing. I want to try something new but it just feels like I’m destined to be with him. But I don’t want to be that other woman I want to be the only one. We have graduated and now our schools are right across the street from each other. However I am still wanting to see more people before I settle I don’t know why or if I should let go help!!

If she told you this on the spot, like, don't think too deep because in real life, there is little time to think. Think as if this was said to you.

Girl: "That guy you met back there, we actually grew up together. You should get to know him and hang out with him.
He was like a really close friend to me. We used to be together everyday, I trusted him so much. I used to tell him everythingand he was always there for me when I had nobody. I just have a deep admiration for that guy. Whenever we talk, he always gives me this feeling of nostalgia. I just feel so happy when we are together. I mean, i never liked him or anything, and we never dated or anything, but he meant a lot to me. we're not close like before though. "


At the top of your head,
How would you feel? Would this be a bad thing to tell your boyfriend?