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Hello,

So I met my guy 2 years ago, we liked each other a lot but I had no intention of having a relationship with him. He told me he was in a unhappy marriage and his wife did not want to be intimate with him. We saw each other a couple of times and December 2014 I told him it's better we stop seeing each other as to be honest I had no feelings for him and thought it was the right thing to do.

In April 2014 I decided to reply to many of the messages he sent me. I told him we could meet for a coffe or a drink. For some reason after I had a cocktail i decided to kiss him (never kissed him before even when having sex) and that just blew our minds, we had such a great connection and something clicked that night. We were always open with each other and honesty was what I always asked from him. From that date on we started seeing each other every day, except for weekends.

We truly trust each other and I couldn't see myself without him in my life, he supports me, inspirese and motivates me. He told me recently that he wants to be happy and leave the wife who hasn't had sex with him for 4 years.

Yesterday we met because he said he had something important to tell me. He had written a letter where he told me the reasons for him wanting to break with her, she had guilted him
Into marrying her and he was never happy with her. But what hit me the most is that he actually has a 3 year old son, his wife is 4 months pregnant (both through Ivf) and he said will separate once the baby is born. He doesn't want to leave when she is pregnant, and he has made it clear that he will support her financially and with his time to help With the kids.

I feel so guilty and confused, he says that his marriage is not a happy place for his kids to grow up in, and it's better for him and her to go there own ways, his wife agrees with this too and she even regrets having pressured him for the second baby.
He wants me to meet his son!

Shall I stay stay or should I leave?

We have known each other for 23 years we dated briefly when we were young we didn't see each other for about 10 years where we both went through marriage and separation we came together briefly and then he left me for his ex, they had been separated for 7 years by then!;But she had been hearing about me and their daughter had been going home after weekends talking about me and I believe that that made her want him back. Almost a year passed and his marriage didn't work out again. We reconnected recently and we saw each other twice and all the old chemistry was there and we had a great time together but he was very stubborn about the fact that we should start fresh and slow. A few days passed and I got a message saying that he wasn't ignoring me but that he was having some problems and that he would talk to me soon. That was almost a month ago he hasn't returned any of my messages or texts or answered any of my phone calls, he doesn't appear to be staying in his own house either and his neighbors had seen him pack his car with stuff and leave.. I know in the past his exwife had been irresponsible and lost her job and he couldn't afford to keep two households running so he has moved in with her for a month or two in order to take care of his daughter and her needs.. until the ex got a job.. I kind of have a feeling the that is what's happening right now.. But I don't know because he won't communicate with me AT ALL.
NOT A WORD... The the last time I saw him, we really connected.. and we laughed and kissed and talked & it was GREAT.. We have been intimate with each other a few times in the past and we were very very close friends I honestly thought that he was one of the true original honourable good guys!! Even now after month of being ignored, it is very very hard for me to believe that I was wrong for 23 years and that this guy is a total prick.. insights guys? Please help!

I met this man before two years and i fall in love with him and we were spending most of the time together including having sex and doing fun stuff and one day he talked about having kids and i was stupid to get pregnant for him but what can i say! "love is blind" when i told him about my pregnancy he told me about his wife and that they can't have kids together and she want to get divorce. I was pretty shocked because i thought it's only me in his life and i hated myself for doing this and we break up because i can't even look at him so i decided to leave him but i couldn't! Yesterday we were talking and he act like he's ready to do anything in this world to be with me and he left his wife because she don't want him anymore. I felt that he was going to cry when he saw the baby bump but i said no we shouldn't back to each other "I'm lying to myself because i still love him" but i can't trust him anymore and i want to leave after i born my baby. Should i forgive him or leave or what?