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I asked this girl I met over Zoom out and went out for the 2nd time. The only issue I phrased the text as a hangout the second time. I went to pick her up, and she was dressed nice, smelled great, but the shyness and awkwardness between us remained. I asked her later if she has planned anything later, and she said she has to call her video her family and talk to a friend from back home. Only later did she clarify that it was a HE who she was going to call. I found that surprising that she's out with me but wants to call this guy later.

Anyways we got ice cream and, due to COVID restrictions, went to my car and ate there. She laughed at very basic things, and we talked about random topics. At one point, the awkwardness got too much, and I asked, "If I am doing something wrong?" She said, "No, I am just reserved and am shy when I meet new people." After driving around and talking, I dropped her at her dorm. She addressed a few of my comments as "that's actually funny" (I know I am overanalyzing everything, but that's what my brain does) and lastly talked about her family. Lastly, she thanked me for paying for her ice cream and driving her around. She said, "let me know if you want to hang out again." She waited for a minute, and I said sure, and then she left. I overanalyze everything, but I am confused if there is interest or just friendliness. I am confused, and I don't even know if we are dating?

I met this girl over Zoom and hit her up; we started texting occasionally and studied together for an exam over zoom. We studied only for an hour and just talked for about 2 hours. She is new to the area, and she wanted to grab coffee but was nervous about doing so because she was new. However, it was surprising that she mentioned that she has a roommate with whom she could've grabbed coffee with, but she instead went with me.

I asked her, "would you like to grab it with me" and she instantly said yes. We set up a time and place and offered her my number, but she instead gave me hers. It seemed like if I hadn't hung the call-up, she would have still been talking to me, anyway. We met up the next day. She was very shy in person, and it was me asking her the most questions. We grabbed coffee, and she paid for me. I don't know what that means. At one time, I accidentally invaded her personal space, and my shoulder was brushing against hers while ordering coffee and when I noticed, I jumped back, but she didn't seem to mind.

Due to COVID restrictions, we were not allowed to dine in. I offered if she wanted to go back to my car, which she agreed to. This was a bit surprising because she only knows me from a 2-hour zoom conversation.

We went back to my car, and I showed her the campus; and she eventually got out of her comfort zone and started asking questions, talking, and laughing at the dumbest things I said. After a few hours, I dropped her at her dorm, and she asked me a question related to schoolwork and said thank you for showing me around, and left.

She didn't text me afterward, but I texted her two days later, she responded quickly, and despite ghosting her unintentionally, she still responds fast to my questions and comments. I want to ask her for another date, but I don't want to waste her time nor mine. Is she interested or just being friendly?

Thank you

P. S. Would you classify this as a date or hanging out?

I am really a shy and introvert guy. I just like to be around my 3-4 friends. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation and I don't even know what to talk if I ever go on a date (HELP ME!). Though I have a nice face and body (physique like Noah Centineo lol) but only girls that are close to me are either childhood friends, Online friends or rarely 2-3 university friends which obviously see me as a friend. Do I even have a chance of finding a love with this hopeless personality? If yes then how?