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27f, I am one of the women that can confidently say that I’m unlucky in love. Unlike other women I’ve known that were approached by men, I have never been approached by a decent guy in person. I’ve been skinny and I’ve been thick and I’ve been fat, my dating life has remained stagnant. The closest I got to a relationship was seeing someone for a few months that was not physically attractive but got women easily (personality?). I’ve been complimented on my looks, I would assume most people at least find me at minimum cute. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I decided to try bumble because the guys that messaged me first on dating apps were either weird, players or I just didn’t like back. What is so wrong with me? I don’t want children but I’m at the age where I’m not as desirable, oh wait I was 21 and still ignored by guys. I know my worth and will not settle for the sake of avoiding “loneliness”.

27F, the longest I was with someone was a few months. I have only ever met men on dating apps, I don’t have friends or a social life. I had to use dating apps because men just don’t ever approach me. I know women get approached doing everyday things like groceries, going to the bookstore etc. I’m told I’m cute, even when I was a little skinnier I assumed that would lead to more attention. I get messages on the apps but my reality has been: good looking guys only want casual, the decent looking ones are too short for me and the meh ones have a decent personality but I’m not physically attracted to them. I have tried bumble after years of expecting guys to approach first, I have gotten a good amount of responses recently but it continues to die out early on. I just go through periods where I feel the need to take a step back and test the guys interest. Or periods where I want companionship and for a few weeks, I have no desire to talk to any guy. Some say self sabotage I say it’s a gut instinct knowing it’s doomed to fail.