Search Results: some guys can be so dirty

I have known this guy for 9 months now. We are on and off we call each other friends but when it comes to dirty talking we do it like crazy. We have been hanging out for quite a while now. Today, I spent all my day with him I had to go to this one place to do some work and he was driving me around treated me really nice and everything. Then later to compensate I bought him really nice shoes from macys since he insisted that he wouldn't take my money. Then later he asked me where to go for dinner I suggested a place further he said no and I really wanted to go so I said I really want to go and this time we were walking towards a store and there were people around us he started yelling saying I said no why the fuck do you keep saying the same thing over and over again. I was very shocked to see that behavior of his. Then we sat in the car and he tried to say sorry and I was still quiet then he started to touch me playfully and I was very uncomfortable at first and he insisted for a kiss I kept saying no and told him to stop and he didn't he started to feel my boobs and suddenly we got caught in the moment and we felt each other. Later while driving home he tried to grab my thigh and I yelled out my ex's name(the guy I was I talked to online for 2 months never even met him) instead of his name and he was turned off and he was like who the fuck is that. I told him the story and he started acting disinterested and said he is not interested in my story. Later, then we were supposed to go eat and he calls his friend and makes a plan to eat out with him rather and he dropped me off. I told him I wanted to go eat with him he said sorry may be tomorrow. I don't get him what is going on? I am so inexperienced in this! help will be greatly appreciated. I don't know his motive behind this? I can't figure him out one minute he's a jerk one minute he is a the best guy one can every imagine themselves with.

Does anyone think there might be a connection there? Some girls like when their men are degrading to them in bed... like calling them bitch, slut, w/e else they can think of. Some girls really like that... some guys also really like to be the dominating one who says the dirty talk. Does anyone think there's a connection between the people who listen to rap music and who like degrading things in bed..? Or maybe that they listen to rap music to get degrading thoughts out of their minds before sex? Just speculation... but I'm curious. Not saying that ALL rap is degrading, but for the songs that are and the type of people who like those songs...? Any thoughts?