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I am 28 years now, was born in a lower middle class family in India but as far as I can remember I always dreamed about becoming "RICH" didn't realize that it’s not so easy to be one :( that too in my country. Now today I have worked 10 years (5 year in local businesses which companies don't accept as work experience) got a 5 year college degree, working a low paying job in a company now. Reasons I wanted to be rich were not I wanted a Ferrari or a beach house or never wanted to work but I just wanted a good life for myself/wife/kids. That's why I never dated any girl or have any friends who are girls. I lost my savings while trying to start businesses 2 times in my life just coz I wanted to become rich. Now I am back to where I started from, no money in my bank. Even if I save 20 years I don't think I will be able to buy her a flat. When I see my boss who is a high school pass, unmannerly man but still is the CEO just coz he inherited this all. He got a loving, caring wife. I feel bad and sad for myself. I am above average looking and nice guy but chose to remain single just coz I wanted to give everything to my wife but sadly I failed, now the problem is for past 1 year I feel lonely and sad coz I know I have to live alone forever coz I will never be able to give same life to my wife that rich people can give to their wives, I don't want my wife to suffer just coz I was not rich. I don't want those fights about money and inability to buy her an apartment/flat and car and jewellery. But even if she is happy doesn't mean she's really happy with me coz I know deep down I won't be happy as I won't be able to give her what she deserves/wants moreover I also won't be happy as I never wanted to live this kinda life. I don't think I will ever succeed and become “RICH”. So what should I do now? I have decided I will remain single forever and stop dreaming like an idiot now because I am at the crossroads I can't go with this uncertainty anymore. So what you guys say now?

Most of you know my story...
We were co-workers, from India
At first she had some sort of attraction and interest in me. we started of well. she didn't knew my age at & am younger to her.I caught her staring at me more than once. she locked eyes with me. when i was having lunch and i turned around by accident to se she was starting at me cold stare for 10 second. before i turned around. she gave out her number to me. she added me on FB. she even invited me out alone only two of us. at the end of the day wen we hungout, she asked me " i will bring u cooked food will u eat it for me?" i was over the moon. after three months like this,
Now, she knew i am younger than her by 2 years. one saturdayday she asked me helps and i asked her shall i give it to u near ur house so we can meetup. she said yes. i went near to her house and called her. she said can u come near my house. i went there. she invited me inside to come in and she introduced to her parent and she was like i told u that guy. he is... we had good time with her parents and her dad was a cop. she flirted me infront of her parents. her mom was staring at us like cold stare. we had snacks at her home.
exactly a day later, she called me out in person and said "my parents instructed me not to encourage boys to send smses and calls. so pls stop calling or msging me, cause if they say somethng it will be for my good. Also, my parents are lookng out for marriage alliance" i said no issues i like u btw. can u spk to ur parents for a possible alliance btwn us. She said like "I am older than u and my dad is old fashioned and won't agree my husband younger than me" i can't take this frwd knwing they won't agree 100%. i didn't pressured her and left off and waited for her to change her mind for 5 months.
Now
she is engaged to a guy as per her parents wish. arranged marriage. But i see her feelings for me in her eyes. i catch her staring at me, she care for me.