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We have been 1 year in a relationship with my foreign boyfriend. I used to visit him every week in the house that he and his foreign friend rented (they split bills). My family doesn't like my boyfriend and threatened him to kill. My boyfriend run away to another city and due to fear his friend left the house too.

In July, we were apart from my boyfriend and he blamed me I was destroying his life. He said he is going to find one rich girl to live together who won't bring him to trouble. I did not talk to my boyfriend for 2 weeks. Suddenly, On August, I was surprised he came back and was looking for me. He asked to stay together so fast in a new house and immediately transfer his things including car, big tv, other expensive things. During these months, my boyfriend is cold to me and rejected me many times of sex. I also caught him having so many condoms on his bag. One day, I saw a girl who keeps calling him every morning, afternoon, evening, I wonder why he doesn't take the calls and suddenly this girl text him, "Babe, how are you doing? and he named that girl as "Dianne GF" I was shocked and get mad at him. Saying bullshit! You already have another woman. Are you cheating on me? He denied and said "No, it is just a typo error. She is just a friend and he has an old foreigner.

On September-October, he went back to the City because he said he has to earn money to pay the house. This time we split bills together. I wonder why my boyfriend just visits me once to twice a week per month. I used to call him every day but he won't take my calls. Until in November, I wonder why he didn't go home yet and was only pressuring me to pay house bills. At late 2 AM, I keep calling him nonstop, he never accepts the call just texting I'm busy, I'm playing, don't disturb. At a later time, he accepted my call and gets mad "WHAT DO YOU WANT" I made excuses that I need help in house the faucet is broken. We talk for 20 minutes with my boyfriend.

I don't even believe in soulmates or love at first sight. But let me tell you, as soon as my eyes met his, my heart knew that I wanted to be in his life for the rest of ever. So I guess I'm a believer now😅 And it feels like he radiates love for me.

But he is ridiculously busy with work and school. And he decided before meeting me that he doesn't want to date until after he is settled into his career.
I don't want to talk to anyone, date anyone nor have sex with anyone. I just want him.
And I don't mean that in an obsessive way, like I'm still out here living my life, but relationship wise, I would rather absolutely nothing if I can't be with him.

In the last week Mr. I'm too busy for a relationship, has spent three evenings with me. And he is notorious for being a lurker in our group chat and never responding to text messages. But he always responds to me and usually right away.

So my question is, would you wait around for him to get settled into his career?
I have no idea how long that will take.

So I've had 2 previous serious relationships
The 1st one - we been together for 6 months
And after the break up, my ex boyfriend got into another relationship few months after
Whereas I got into another relationship 2 years later
She wasn't attractive either

The 2nd one - we been together for nearly 3 years
Broke up in January this year
After the break up, he got into another relationship few months after
The girl is quite fat but has an attractive face

I'm still single
I've had guys wanting to get to know me and all but I'm not attracted to them
The ones that Im attracted to.. are either wanting only one night stands or "too busy for relationship" so only wants to casually date

Im really picky on men... I need to be attracted to their looks AND personality