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I’d love to hear what any husbands who stop by have to say in answer to this question. I personally believe that a marriage contract has been breached the moment either the wife gets pregnant by another man or the husband gets another woman pregnant. There is no longer a marriage at that point as far as I’m concerned. Sometimes I find myself holding very antiquated and sexist views. I’m not bragging about that as it’s nothing to brag about. I’m just being honest in admitting that I am not always consistent in my opinions and that my opinions about cheating sometimes change depending on the gender of the cheater. For example I can more easily find reasons for a wife to stay with her husband if he’s cheated and gotten another woman pregnant than I can find for a man to stay with his wife. It seems somehow worse to me when a wife steps out on her husband and gets pregnant by another man, and I see it as somehow indicative of a weakness in character when a man stays with his wife under those circumstances. To get pregnant by another man to me is just the ultimate insult to your husband. So I pose the question to any husband who is reading, if your wife got pregnant by another man would you stay and if you would stay what would be your reasoning in deciding to stay?

And please don't ask, "Would you be okay with your girlfriend having more that one guy?" Because no I'm not. I'm very possessive. Not to the point of controlling, I just don't want any other men touching her what so ever. And yeah I know it's hypocritical but come on, EVERYONE on this earth is a hypocrite about multiple things. So you calling me a hypocrite is like calling me an air breather. Everyone, including you, is an air breather.

Not to mention that Girl's seem to forgive a cheating husband or boyfriend a lot easier than a man forgives his wife or girlfriend. And no, I don't care if guys cheat because I'm not trying to start a romantic relationship with men. So why would I care if they cheat?

anyway, would you be okay with being in a relationship where your man can have another girlfriend and he loves you both equally? I'm talking about all three of you living together and everything. And no, you don't get to have anyone except your man.

Simple math. 1 guy can get 3 girls pregnant. It makes sense for a man to have multiple women.

1 girl can only get pregnant by 1 of the 3 men. doesn't make sense for a girl to have multiple guys.

Ladies.
Would you forgive your boyfriend / husband if he kissed another woman?
ONLY a kiss, nothing more.
Do you consider that cheating?


Men.
Do you consider that cheating?
Would you forgive your girlfriend / wife if she did the same?