Search Results: am i too fat

So just some background information, I’m 22 now and my dad is around 65-68. He also had stokes around 5 years ago thats left him somewhat dependent on us to take care of him among other health issues. Before the strokes though, when I was a teenager, there were times were he did stare at my body a little too intensely along with a family friend that was there as well. That was partially because I was wearing a tight fitted shirt but I wasn’t expecting them to be there. Growing up as well as now, he comments on my weight and mostly says I’m too fat. Only a couple of times when I did lose some weight, he said I’ve gotten skinner which I didn’t really care for.

Recently though, I noticed that he stares at my chest longer than normal for when I’m trying to help him get up from his wheelchair even though I’m not wearing a low cut/tight shirt. At first I disregarded it but now it’s happening almost every time I help. He also stares at the rest of my body sometimes when I’m walking by but doesn’t say anything. Today though, he was trying to look through the crack of my wardrobe door to stare at me while I was changing. I’m not sure if he knew I was changing then or what (I wasn’t naked then either, I still had my clothes on), but it made me really uncomfortable that he still glanced that way regardless besides keep on walking. I’m not sure who to really talk to about this and afraid that I’m assuming incorrectly about his character once I do tell someone. What do you guys think?