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There's a girl who has a crush on me (she told me), I've told her that I wasn't interested and she seemed to accept it and move on. The other day she was letting me look at pictures on her phone since she has a ton of fanart for animes we both like, when I found a couple pictures she had taken of me when we were in class, without asking or telling me. She also had a couple videos. I felt pretty weirded out but maybe I'm overreacting?

Long story my boyfriend is Irish, I am from the states he lives here. I noticed he started following this pretty girl on Instagram thought nothing of it until one of our mutual friend did you see who he followed. She explained

This girl was apparently someone he dated who he was crazy about and even though it’s been 4 years he always tries to get back in contact with her. They seem to fight fall out then reconnect.

Anyway I let it go because no point working myself up but he left his phone on the bed and messages started coming in from her.

Asking him did he mean to add her, I know I shouldn’t have but I looked at the messages, he said that he had been thinking about her and added her. She replied saying she had been thinking about him a lot lately aswell. She asked would he ever come home and he said maybe which really has hurt me.

The thing that really hurt was she made a joke about how could put up with a high maintenance American girl while she said it in a humorous way, his reply was yeah they’ll never be on the same level as you.

I don't know what to do? Could he just be homesick but friends are saying he shouldn’t even be texting her. The last time they apparently spoke was 2 years ago so I can’t understand why he to keep getting in contact.

So my boyfriend has cheated on my in the beginning of our relationship. He was in another relationship and had sex with her. He also was asking other girls to be his girlfriend and made out with another girl while dating me. He had phone sex. I caught him and now he is changing his behavior. He went to therapy and gave me access to his accounts. The thing that worries me is now he isn’t putting any effort in the relationship. He won’t call me iniate any conversations first. Won’t fly out to see me because he’s saying he’s broke and doesn’t have the money. He doesn’t iniate anything sexual and he always has an excuse. He said he’s withdrawing because of how much I mistrust him. He did this to his ex girlfriend too. He said he did to her because he didn’t care and that he’s doing it to me because I’m mistreating him and making him feel like I’m going to abandon him. Should I trust by now or am I giving good reasons not to trust him?