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Hello everyone,
There is something I don’t get and maybe you can enlighten me on this.
I had a non-commited relationship with a guy for two years, on and off. I rejected him when we first met but we became intimate. He never cut me off his life and I never did. I felt madly in love with him but never told him. I though he cared about me, but I don’t get his behaviour.

Everytime he finds a new girl, he rubs his new relationship in my face. I’m the first he tells about it like « I always tell you everything so you have to know I’m in love with this girl ». Then we fight, take some distance. He posts pics of his new girl while he never posts anything. He refuses to follow me back on ig while he follows a lot of girls he doesn’t care about. He mentions the girl he is with in purpose, when it’s not meant to be.

Exemple : we were closed to date / commit both of us, he announced me he was in love with his best friend. It’s been like three weeks they date I guess. Yesterday I reacted to his story and immediately he changed his profile pic with a pic of him and her (that dates back a month ago when they were still friends..)

He told me I’m his ex but we have never been official. All his relationships last a month, I’m afraid this one is real.
Can we consider he acts like an ex in rebound relationships? Is he doing all this to make me jealous but why, since he never asked me to be his girlfriend?

Thanks a lot for your help

I like him a lot and we haven't been together for long.

He has a best friend who is a girl and he recently went on holiday with her abroad where she lives in Spain. And it made me super jelaous that he was spending a few days with her alone all day (probably on a beach).

I spoke to him and he said he was sorry he made me feel insecure and won't stay overnight with her alone again.

However, he still skypes and calls her on a regular basis and she will be staying in his city for erasmus over the summer, so I already feel jelaous that he's gonna see her MORE than he's gonna see me because I live further away.

I am doubting I can remain chill when my man is so close to another woman. Shall I end it with him before I start feeling really insecure?

Hi, I’m in love with a guy for almost 2 years but never told him. He first wanted to date me but I rejected him. Then we had a friends with benefits thing and we ended up in fights. We argued a lot for a year and then we made up. It’s been a year he was single and we were more and more intimate.
I was closed to admit to him my feelings but he told me a week ago he wanted to try to date his female best friend. I was devastated and I still am. I’m truly in love with him and care for him.

I understood he probably always thought I only wanted a sexual relation with him, but it sounds like I have a special place in his life but i don’t know which it is : he’s intimate with me, he’s very attracted to me and he trusts me.

His relationship starts bad :
- he couldn’t follow me on instagram or like other girl pictures, because « she’s super jealous » (what he said) and he’s afraid of her making drama and send him screenshots of every tiny thing he does on social medias, because she knows all his past with his exes and flirts so she’s suspicious
- he asked me to not save every text we send to each other because he’s afraid of her spying on his phone
- he explained he has ever talked about me before so maybe i might represent a threat for her

Knowing him so well, and that he never had a serious and mature long-term relationship, liking freedom and doesn’t like being bothered and let a girl get to him.. how he can accept such a thing?

My questions are : do you think their relationship might work? Do you think he never saw I was in love with him? Should I tell him about my feelings (knowing that I’m going to be rejected because he has this new girlfriend) or should I wait more longer that their relation end?

Thanks so much for you help