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My husband still have some friends of his ex, and even his ex daughter is friends with him on Facebook, we have so many arguments about this subject that we even think about getting divorce. My husband had this relationship with this woman some years ago, but I’m convinced that he still obsessed with her, one of his hobbies is to sing, and he even made her a song, he told me that she wasn’t “important” on his life, but I’m sure she was, and she still. He doesn’t even have sex with me, and I look at his phone and I find some old conversations with her and he told her he was gonna have her “for breakfast, lunch, and dinner”, and that she was the “most fun sexual that he ever had” so I think, that’s why he really don’t even have sex with me, he don’t like me like he like her, he even made a sex tape with her, and I told him let’s make one, and he just ignored me. I really feel like trash, no man have ever made me feel so insecure, ever.

tl;dr- considering keeping in contact with an ex im still in love with. broke up last December, talked once every month since then.

I broke up with my ex a few days before Christmas last year. Basically I'm still crazy about him but I had reasons to end the relationship (he was a good partner, he did everything to try and make it work- it's my seriously ugly personal issues). Since we broke up I've just been obsessing about it but I never showed. He sent a long message on new year's day greeting me and telling me he still loves me. I replied and that convo didn't last long. About last week of January, he called me and we talked for a while. After that call, he sent a lot of messages asking if we could still make it work. I love him a lot but I was so sure that getting back together isn't the right thing to do so I stuck with my decision. I blocked him on Facebook after that because it became harder for me to stop thinking about him. I'd visit his profile a lot. Just two days ago he sent messages on Instagram but he unsent them. Then last night he called and we talked for a few hours. It was a really nice talk and I felt instantly better. It included saying I could call him anytime I need someone to talk to. He said he's still waiting and hoping for something between us. He understands why I ended things with him which I didn't expect because he really didn't do anything for me to act that way.

Anywaynot a day goes by that I don't think about him and I miss him a lot so I've thought about considering calling him every now and then. Would that be unhealthy? I didn't say anything to him about getting back together. We just agreed that we can call each other anytime we want, and I do want to. I just dont know what's right or wrong about this anymore.