He’s dating another girl?

[Newlifenewme20]

See I’m talking with this guy and he told me he’s dealing with another girl and it’s new but he wants to slow it down with her because he likes me 🙄. He asked me how to slow it down with her. Now Ik why he texts slow. First of all what does “ dealing with “mean? Dating her or she’s his girlfriend? Sounds like she’s his girlfriend to me tbh. He told me that she’s putting pressure on him fast. She’s spending time , buying him groceries, leaving stuff at his place , picking him up. Sounds like a relationship right? To me it does. On his Facebook page it says he is in a relationship. But mine says I’m married even though that’s not accurate because I’m just too lazy to fix it. So I figure maybe that’s the case with him. He’s still wanting me to come over and spend time. He says he thinks I could be something special. But I don't know how serious it is with him and this other girl he’s “dealing with” I know sometimes men can totally lead a woman on like he’s with her and then try to downplay his relationship with her when talking to other women. What is he doing to make her feel comfortable enough to do all this? So is this something more serious than what he’s telling me? What should I do?

[WesBrewer]

The other girl either doesn't know, or she knows that she is more important, she might also think she can easily get ahead of you. I think it is more serious than what he says, they are probably actually dating, at least it sure sounds like it. You should break up with him and fix your Facebook status.

[boggboss]

You have to decide if you happy being in this situation

[boggboss]

Because as it stands u know your not the only women in his life so if u ain't happy with this talk to him

[Newlifenewme20]

I don't know how I feel about it yet

[Newlifenewme20]

Should I appreciate his honesty or is this a red flag

[boggboss]

Tjats for your to decide lol I can't pick that for u

[Newlifenewme20]

Come on tell me what you thinkkkk 😫

[boggboss]

I can't lol you know yourself and what u think here so go with what u think do u feel its a red flag is he playing you or her or is he trult in a situation that she is too attached to quick although if she is buying him groceries what more is she doing

[Newlifenewme20]

No one really knows what’s up with this girl but him ig. Buying him groceries? That sounds like a whole relationship. She’s doing all that and he’s talking to me and had me over his place talking about making me his bae. Wtf. Either she’s crazy af or he’s definitely cheating on her

[boggboss]

I would be leaning towards them being more but again that's just a guess

[Newlifenewme20]

I feel like it’s more than what he’s saying too. Honestly. As a woman Ik that she would not be doing all that for him unless he’s making her feel like they are together or they are gonna be together. 🙄 this is crazy

[boggboss]

As a guy uts not hard to belive that he is allowing her to think they are more if she is buying him shopping people u date don't just do that but meh

[Newlifenewme20]

For her to be doing all that for him I think it’s completely unacceptable for him to have been laying up with me like he was. I mean the dude was all over me🤷🏽‍♀️.

You’d be mad if you buy a chick groceries and then you learn that she’s all over some other dude. The more I talk to you about this the more I feel this is a red flag.

[Newlifenewme20]

And then it says in a relationship on Facebook. It’s right in front of my face. 🙄🙄🙄

[boggboss]

Thats what I mean just float the idea around put yourself in his place then hers what would u do how would u act this is a bit off on his behaviour

[boggboss]

Wsit have u never checked or asked?

[Newlifenewme20]

I’ve never asked him. He just told me last night. He just says he’s DEALING with someone. At first I thought oh he’s dating around exploring his options. Then I realize this morning that could mean anything 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️. I start to think He’s trying to downplay their relationship so he can get me.

[boggboss]

This is crazy lol I think its pretty clear he is either cheating or fishing around whilst still with her

[Newlifenewme20]

I told him to go for her and he said “ that’s not fair. I want you “ 🙄

[Newlifenewme20]

I’m recognizing the game but I’ll play along and see what he’s up to

[boggboss]

But howbcan he want you when he is with her this guy is some goon meh like I said this is too much drama you gonna have to decide these 1

[Newlifenewme20]

I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he said no it’s an entanglement 🙄

This guy...

[boggboss]

Lol he is playing you for some fool at this point

[boggboss]

What are you going to do if u don't mind me asking?

[Newlifenewme20]

Well... he texts slow. It’s like one moment he’s all in and the next i just have to wait til next time he comes around to finish my thought to him. I posted a pic of my ex and I on my fb story and he hmu at 3am responding to my story saying “ew” . Said he was jealous for a minute 🙄. Ok but he has a whole girlfriend oh I mean entanglement going on though. Before I can talk to him he’s gone again. Another 5 business days. I’m honestly over it. I don’t even like him anymore. He plays too many games.

[boggboss]

To be fair you posting your ex was also playing games but yes I think u should drop him

[Newlifenewme20]

Lmao well yeah. It’s kind of playing games. But I did that to see something. It just proves my point even more about how he’s doing his own thing with his entangled girlfriend but wants me to be all up under his ass worried about him. He’s got no right to hate because he has a wholeeee girlfriend lol

[Newlifenewme20]

I have some things left at his house but I’m gonna get them soon. Then I’m out

[bowenw]

He needs to make up his mind rather than playing two girls. To me it's a red flag and you should move on.

[Shah11]

He wants to fuck you.

[Newlifenewme20]

Well yeah he told me that

[Shah11]

Than spread legs for him.
What wrong babe?

[Newlifenewme20]

🙄 you don’t have any actual advice?

[Shah11]

No I said the truth
I'm player and I do this kind of stuff to get girl on bed. So I'm saying what I do to fuck a girl.

I'm sorry if it's hurt u. 🙏

[Newlifenewme20]

So he wants to be with her but wants to fuck me

[Shah11]

Yeah I'm dating 3 girls at a time. So what's wrong? It's normal. Girl chill.

[Newlifenewme20]

Right. He’s entitled to date around as long as he’s not committed to anyone. That’s why I’m questioning is he really single or is he just trying to make me a side chick

[Shah11]

I said already just for sex that's it no one is committed to one girl in this days.

[harry7825]

He wants both ass to fuck