i just wanna start off with saying that i’m not a home wrecker in any way. i find it disrespectful for someone to make a move on a taken person and that opinion of mine will never change. i’m also gonna type the rest of the story on the “update question part” so don’t forget to read it” so i had this friend group and there was this guy named brandon in it. i thought he was really cute and sweet. so i started to crush on him. then i found out he had a girlfriend back home, so i automatically moved on. a few weeks after, this blonde girl named annie asked brandon’s one friend, kyle to set her up with brandon. later that day, kyle was like “who was the person who wanted to be set up with brandon” so i said me as a joke. then he was like “okk imma help u” but then i was confused because i was pretty sure he was dating someone so i asked kyle that. he was like “he is but it’s long distance, it won’t last long” and that made me give him the side eye because a relationship is a relationship regardless if it’s close or what. but i realized kyle might’ve thought i was serious about getting with brandon so i made sure he knew i was joking, then i let him know that it was the annie girl who wanted him. anyway fast forward, me and brandon ended up being semi-close friends. there has been moments where he’d steal the remote or my beanie from me which would lead to me chasing him, trying to yank it from him. which made me uncomfortable because he’s a taken guy, and i USED to have feelings for him. anyway i met his girlfriend a few days ago.
) you can tell he really loves her. he even wears this one necklace everytime she’s here because it makes her happy. you can also tell he treats her right because if you were to say he’s cheating on her (which he’s not), she wouldn’t believe it.
That's a lot to digest but jist is that you want this guy but he has a girlfriend. I'd say leave him be and don't interfere. The only thing you could really do is find a way to catch his eye and make yourself look like great girlfriend material. Girls know how to get guy's attention so I think you'll find a way if you want to.
yeah the thing is if i were to get him, i definitely want it to be when they’re done and it’s been a year or two after a break up, just out of respect for both. but i’m definitely avoiding him more because things are weird
Cool. You never know how things turn out so maybe he’ll be free again soon. 👍