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So my boyfriend of 6 months and I, both have anxiety and, the past month, our anxiety has been mutually high which increased our fighting. The other day when he was coming to see me, he said his ex girlfriend of two years popped up in his mind. He says he doesn't know why, he hasn't talked to her in a good 5-6 months, and they've been broken up a year. They were long distance with strict parents, and they'd only ever gone out in person once. She sent him a message after we'd gotten together saying she still loved him but he shrugged it off. He wanted a break because of all our fighting and he needs to know why these feelings came into his mind again. He says he's insanely in love with me, but wants to talk to her to see how he feels. He came over today, despite the break and kissed me, and said he knows he's still in love with me but needs time. I know more about his past than she does. He was kicked out shortly after they broke up, and he's a changed person she doesn't know anymore. Should I even believe we have a chance? I love him very much. Random tidbit of info: we were long distance for 4 of our 6 months.

If you're committed in a relationship for already a few months. You really love your girl, but there's one thing.. Before your current girlfriend, you had a crush on another girl. Let's say, a big crush. You really feel nervous around her, and she makes you feel like no one else ever has done. You don't know her in person, you just meet her everytime a few times in a week/month.
You're trying to avoid her, but the more you avoid her the worse your feelings get once you see her again. Your friends know about the situation, but none of them knows what to do since your girlfriend doesn't make you feel the way the other girl makes you feel, yet you love your girlfriend, and you think you don't have many chance with the other girl since she is different (from a different race). You do think that the other girl likes you too since she shows clearly signs. Your other friend has a crush on her as well, but she doesn't seem to like him that way back. What would you decide in the end?