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My husband and I have been married for two years. I work full time and he attends school (graduates next May).

Recently I was speaking with my mother in law about what our plans were following my husband's graduation and I mentioned that we were saving up for a downpayment on a house. My MIL told me not to worry about saving money because my husband has some money in an account from his grandparents and we "won't have any issue with a downpayment."

She then dropped the subject and refused to tell me how much was in the account (too be fair, I only asked once).

My husband had no idea about this account and when he asked her about it she told him not to worry about it.

I think it's highly unusual that my MIL would mention the account and then not say how much was in it - especially since it's her son's money and he's clearly an adult so. Plus if we knew how much was in there then we could properly budget for buying a house.

But then I thought that maybe I'm thinking too much and I should just let it go.

So... is it weird or nah?

Currently I'm just planning on acting as though the money doesn't exist and if there IS money in an account somewhere that he magically has access to in the future we'll just have a larger downpayment than originally planned.

Am I being paranoid?
So I’ve been quarantining for the past 5 months with no fail- staying inside and I haven’t made contact with anyone other than the people I live with. This is mostly due to the fact I live with old grandparents and a mom with high blood pressure, both heightening their risks.
That being said, my birthday is coming up next week and my boyfriend (out of state, haven’t seen in 5 months) plans on coming to celebrate with me. He knows about my unfortunate birthdays from the past 7 years, like for some reason every birthday gets worse, so he wanted to make sure this year was different.
Here’s the problem: he just hung out with someone today who went to a frat party recently. Am I being paranoid if I’m worried about both of them being asymptomatic and me accidentally bringing it back home with me after being with him? Or should I not worry?
If he were to come, we’d be staying at my sister’s house (not with grandparents and mom, sister has also been quarantining)- but we’re planning on using my parents’ car to get around. I’m not worried about him potentially/directly giving them anything, I’m worried about bringing it back home with me. What should I do?