Search Results: keeping the relationship going

Deceived my long distance boyfriend of 3 years by a stupid lie. Salvageable?

HELP! I met a guy online & we clicked. His profile said single no kids. But He'd disappear & when I'd contact him he'd make excuses. I accepted as I felt so strongly about him. A yr later he confessed he was going through...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I've been hiding my relationship?

This is a very long sotry so I'll try to keep it as breif as i can. A year ago I met a wonderful guy, except no one else thought he was that great: my sister worked with him and always warned me about him and that he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you feel about serious relationships when we're young?

I've been seeing someone casually for two months now and people in my life are flipping their lids because we aren't serious. I like what we're doing right now. I stay with my mom, I have no money because it's all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I wait to see if this guy changes his mind about a relationship?

I've know this guy for two months. I wasn't expecting anything to happen but I fell for him. We've been talking and he likes me, but he hadn't been looking for a relationship either and didn't expect to like me this much....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Keeping Score In a Relationship IS NOT Inherently Divisive or Unhealthy

I was reading an article on Elephant Journal titled "The Bad Habit That Almost Ruined My Marriage" by Lynn Shattuck. In this article, Lynn was writing about a realization that she was ruining her marriage because she was...

MazeOfLove

Influencer Age: 50

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Girls, Where do I go from here?

I am a 30-year-old guy who is currently in law school and my question reflects my life in terms of a relationship and or marriage. I am the only guy, the youngest out of the 4 siblings, I have 3 older sisters, 2 are...

thatguyfromtoronto

Xper 7 Age: 40

If something seems totally perfect. Its probably not

If something is totally perfect. Its probably not. With relationships. Something may seem to go fine, but there is always a dark thing, lurking in the corner, just to mess you up. I met someone during Thanksgiving. It was...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Ego boost or is it genuine?

So recently my crush has been acting very different - showing a lot of affection going, hugging me from the back, pulling me towards him. He has a baby and a complicated relationship with the baby mama. I'm keeping my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Boyfriend has me on a pedestal?

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have recently begun spending several nights in a row at each other's houses and are slowly transitioning into moving in together. I have brought a few of my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does my ex want me back? He is stubborn to maintain friendship. What does he want?

So my ex boyfriend and I mutually broke up after a 2.5 year old relationship. Because he was going to study in a different city and we realised we weren't really compatible (too many fights and difference of opinion) so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

You Can Never Understand How Quickly Things Change

Before I get into this story, just know this is not related to sexual behavior, it will not let me change it. Disclaimer: This is all based on a true story. When you see a smile, do you think it is real? Do you think the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Opening lines at a club/bar scene?

Just about to start going out a lot more as im recently out of a relationship. I consider myself a pretty good looking guy, 21 years old. As i've been in a relationship most my early adulthood i haven't had any experience...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does a guy want to go for drinks after dumping me last week?

I broke up with a guy last week, he dumped me because he was unsure with me and didn't think it was right for me to hang around whilst he was unsure about how to move forward. We met online, went on 3 dates, then dumped...

Anonymous

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How do I stop being friends with his ex without causing any drama?

I haven't been with my boyfriend for long but I have known him for a year. We are keeping our relationship on the down low and only a handful of friends know about us. He's friends with his ex, on good terms but they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is alcohol showing what you really feel?

Last week my ex-gf and I were at the same party. We spent the whole night together and she was a bit tipsy but I recognized the girl I fell in love with. She was smiley, fun, outgoing... and she was also touchy with me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Best Friend feeds off of my mistakes/failures?

I had this best friend since middle school. We've always been close but we've been srifting since we started college. We've been trying keeping eachother in eachothers lives but recently she's sort of given up responding...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

We are BOTH IN RELATIONSHIPS but we have a connection... what is she thinking?

I met this girl on campus under odd circumstances, started talking online. We had SO much in common: the same passions/dreams. We got to know each other, and met once. However, I entered a relationship with someone else,...

themanwithaplan6666

Xper 5 Age: 35

I have a girlfriend, she has a boyfriend... but it feels like she might be into me? What do YOU think?

I met this girl on my campus under odd circumstances, started talking online. We had SO much in common: the same passions/dreams. We got to know each other, and met up once. However, I entered a relationship with someone...

themanwithaplan6666

Xper 5 Age: 35