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Heya, just wanted to get a few opinions and to see whether I am right or not.

I am a while male man living in Canada and have come across a variety of cultures when dating.

Now when I have a conversation with an Indian lady she seems extremely interested and shows every single attribute of interest - long answers, asks questions, flirts, shows interest, smiley faces, etc...

For instance I approached and talked to this one Indian girl who ended up asking ME for my number and showing every sign of interest.

However when it comes time to ask her out, they would always say they are busy and available the next week, in a very nice and sympathetic way of course.

I was wondering what you Indian girls are thinking? Are you:

A: Playing hard to get? or
B: Are not interested?

Problem with B is that they show sooooo much interest and are sooo nice and seem very very interested!! Literally show every single sign of interest in the textbook. But it's the fact that they ALL seem busy this week and can only do the next that's problematic, aka trying to put the guy off?

Any inside opinions from Indian women? Are you trying to determine how loyal the man will be? Why else would you be so nice and waste your energies on leading them on while not being interesed?

Any opinions much appreciated, and please don't hit me with the "race doesn't matter" because it does, every culture has their own system of dating and testing.

Thanks!

Okay, I have quite a story here, so I apologize it's a little long.

Okay, I have a part time job in a small beach cafe in California with my dad and brother. I'm also a college student too.

One day, 2 weeks after my first day of working, this really attractive woman around my age (early 20's) with long dark hair, dark eyes and looked fashionable came in walking in with a smile. She also came in with a baby in a pushchair, so I assumed she was already happily married.
After I took her order and started frying up, she kept looking at me, smiling. After I served her order, she left saying "Thank you, bye!" She seemed very friendly.

The same time next day, she came back again! She asked for the same order. And while I was frying up, she began to talk to me and asked about my general life, interests, family etc. and also talked about herself too. It turned out she is a single mother.. We had quite a conversation until I fried up her order.
She kept coming here the next few days and conversed with me everytime I fried up her orders. After a few days, she started to flirt with me a bit and said she liked my accent and that I was "kinda cute."

I only work there 4 days a week, with 3 hours each day. On one of my day offs, I was in college during my lunchbreak and my brother who fills my role when I'm on my day offs texted me saying there was a young woman in the cafe wondering why I was not at the cafe that day. I assumed it was that regular customer. He also jokingly added "Looks like you a got a crush here! ;)"

After my days off and finishing college for the week, I came to the cafe and she was there like I expected. This time, she said that she would like to get to know me better and gave me her number! So I saved her to my contacts. It's been 2 days since, and I was wondering if I should text her? But I want to make sure I'm not wasting my time on someone bad as I have a bit of trust issues, hence why I'm asking this question.

So do you think she's interested?