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I'm really good friends with this girl who I love really much but her boyfriend is a complete asshole (I've known this forever) and he has unintentionally caused her to cut and attempt suicide twice (She was already depressed before, but he's just made it worse). Recently he's found out we talked and being the jealous asshole he is he told her to choose me or him and she chose him and we stopped talking but they've broken up and now she wants back into my life. However, I told her no because if she really cared about me and appreciated me she would've chosen me over that douchebag and she told me that she can't survive without me and that she's heartbroken and I suspect she'll attempt suicide or cut again because of this but I'm still sticking to my choice for now. Why should I waste time with someone like this? She chose him over me and now when he breaks up with her she thinks she can just swoop back into my life like that.

I met this girl a while ago on social media and I've began to love her and I didn't realize she liked me at first but recently she's gotten a new boyfriend and I can already tell it's a bad relationship. One he's overzealous/jealous of her and doesn't trust her at all, two he argues with her a lot, and three he's caused her (not intentionally) to attempt suicide and cut herself both of which she promised me she wouldn't do.

I've tried to tell her to leave him but she won't and it's clear she won't be anytime soon and quite frankly I don't even want to be friends with her anymore as I don't want to deal with the pain that will come if she kills herself or cuts again over this guy. She says she loves me too but It's hard to believe as she never tells me when she's sad or rarely even tells me these things. I promised her I would never leave her but I'm started to think it's pointless remaining friends with her if she remains with this asshole of a boyfriend. It's so obvious he's only with her for her body or because of how she looks but she stays with him and when I ask her why she says "It's comfortable knowing I have her".

What should I do? She clearly doesn't care about me enough to as she's choosing him over me and her other best friend who she considers her sister so why should I waste my time? I'm tired of connecting with people only to get hurt in the long run intentionally or unintentionally because I KNOW for a FACT that if she remains with this guy she'll attempt suicide again and maybe suicide and fail (she's told me she's attempted it before without telling me though the most recent time she was going to attempt it she told me first and I prevented her from doing it) or cut herself (recently she's cut herself like 5 times) again and I don't want to be hurt by it as I love her a lot.

Also as I side note I promised her numerous times I would never leave her (she told me if I left she would be heartbroken but it doesn't seem l

I am 23 years old boy, and only had one "experience" with a girl. We were not really dating, but we kissed and slept together a couple times, without having sex (Just cuddling the whole night). I loved her so much, and can't seem to get over her, and was diagnosed some months ago with clinical depression and made several suicide attempts.

I've recently tried subscribing to a dating website in the hope I would find someone who would make me forget her, but I only had a very few answers. Most of the girls who were talking to me at first suddenly stopped answering. I've noticed many girls say in their profiles that they want someone happy and outgoing, and they all seem to think depressed guys are not worth the time spent talking to.

I've been often told I was handsome and intelligent, but I feel completely worthless, and the fact that no one is interested in me tends to confirm these thoughts.

So, girls, what do you think of a deseperate guy like me? Do you think I will never ever find anyone who will love me?

If someone is nice, sweet, kind, but they make jokes and insult people for amusement. Not all the time, just sometimes. Is that person undatable? He/she may be sweet, kind hearted, willing to give anything that they have to spare. The person is romantic, sweet, smart and very educated! They just make jokes and clown and roast people, would you date that person or befriend them or keep your distance? Keep in mind they are as sweet as pie to you all the time. They tell you how important you are and how beautiful or Hansom you are to them. They always take you out and spend time with you or their always available whenever you call. They never put anyone or anything above you... But that person just makes fun of people sometimes. For amusment or for defense. Like if someone has a farmers tan their getting roasted! If that person is fat their gettin roasted! If that person is ugly or stupid and uneducated then let the jokes fly! Would you ever date that person or keep your distance? Would you let that person in your life? I ask this because sometimes to some of us, being nice 24/7 is like being fake for the sake of pleasing the world and there's a sayin that goes...

(One should not attempt to befriend the world)



And ofcorse people are going to get mad, that's life!
No one likes being the victim prey behind someone else's jokes but I know I know! You never know how hard that person might take that joke. They might go postal and kill a city school of kids like columbine high or blow something up like a suicide bomer 😓😒

Does making fun of people and insulting them really that crucial? I mean does it make a person evil or does if put that person in a position where their labeled undatable and unfriendable Due to ones fear ad being made fun of?

Let's say the guy you're dating was previously in a shitty relationship about a year before you two met. His ex was manipulative and abusive, she would guilt him and threaten to inflict self harm whenever he had tried breaking up with her, and even threatened to commit suicide the final time he attempted breaking up with her. He didn't let her threats get to him that time, and went through with the break up. Of course, his ex's threats were bullshit and she never tried anything. She would go on to try to explain that it "wasn't her, but her depression and anxiety" that caused her to treat him the way she did. Several months later, after he had cut off all contact with her, she messages him and begs him to come back into her life. But just as friends, because she knows he would never take her back. She asks for this because she's depressed, suicidal, etc. and feels like he is the only person who still kinda cares. So, begrudgedly, he decides to be "friends" with her ("friends" meaning he just talks her out of suicide every time she has one of her episodes) because he would feel guilty if he didn't.

NOW, let's say that the guy you're talking to is trying to find a way to cut his ex off completely without causing her to do something stupid and possibly fatal. How would you feel if he were to open up to you about everything and told you this? Would you see him differently? Would you still want to date him, or would you break up with him? Would you help him drop her?

I ask this because that guy in all of that I just typed up is me, and that's the situation I'm in right now. I've been talking to this girl for about 5 months now, and it's starting to get serious. Should it turn into an actual relationship, I do not want this baggage to ruin it for me. So I'm trying to get rid of it before it gets to that.