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I started college not to long ago. I don't drink, I haven't gone to any parties and not sure if I will (it just doesn't seem very fun to me if I don't drink), and I'm a virgin and never had a boyfriend. (I'm not saving myself for marriage or anything, I just haven't had an opportunity to do it). I feel like all the guys only care about is getting with easy hot girls and hooking up at parties. I hear guys talk about getting laid all the time, and about which girls are the easiest to get with in our school.

i feel like because I'm not super promiscuous the guys at my college want nothing to do with me. It feels as if they think I am wasting their time when I talk to them. As if instead of talking to me, they could be trying to hit on another looser girl instead.
I honestly don't know if I'm attractive or not (I've been told I was attractive multiple times, but I feel like everyone gets told that) and I try to come off as friendly and kind (but of course I'm not perfect), and it just feels like no guys want to waste his time with me. It's a crummy feeling. Sorry I'm rambling now this has just been all pent up for awhile, and yes I know there are some guys who probably don't think like this, but it feels like everyone at my school (it's a very small school) do think like this.

So there's a guy that's been in my class for 3 years (I've known him that long too) and I moved into his area in February this year and as soon as he found out he texted me straight away and we've been on and off texted since then. He always tells me that I should go out to him sometime and he's very flirty. He's been asking for a bj since like march and I always say no but he asks again anyway it doesn't really bother me. He used to always ask me for nudes and I always used to say no until this summer I decided to give in to his pleading and I sent them but he sent them back. Then we didn't snapchat for 3 days and I ended up bumping into him at a disco (I tried my best to avoid him) he came up to me smiled said hi just like squeezed my cheeks and kept walking so then that fucked me up completely because it really confused me like what does that mean, I had watched him meet (make out/french kiss: if you're not from Ireland) with a girl like an hour previous. I'm still texting him on and off but it's not constant it's like we'll snapchat for a week get a streak and then we won't talk for another 7 days. He's not in my class anymore because he skipped 4th year but whenever I see him he just smiles at me and I smile back... I regally like him but I was just wondering am I wasting my time with him or do you think there's something there?