Search Results: what types of flirting is there

Ok well there is this one girl that is friends with my friends girlfriend. I've met her a few times, and she's okay. I haven't talked to her much but I've thought she was kind of cute. My friends girlfriend even asked me one time if I would be interested, and I'm about 90% I could possibly do something with her.

But the thing is, everytime someone talks about her they say how crazy and high maintenance she is. I think some of it comes from her acting like she can drink, but gets drunk 2 beers in. And she gets a little crazy when she drinks apparently. She's also really ADD, the one time I did meet her and talk to her. We went on the porch and she was barefoot, and when we came in she sat there and painted the floor with the rain on her feet. I thought it was funny lol.

But the main reason I'm asking this is because, well, I'm still a virgin and I'm already 20. I don't go to college and the only people I meet at this point in life is my friends, and any friends of there's. And girls I meet on Tinder, but I usually never meet in real life. I use it more of a boredom thing. Back in high school, it was a lot easier to blow it off because I had so many different options. But I've been out of school for a few years and I worked at Macy's for a year and the girls there were kind of too preppy and stuck up. I get along better with stoners or party people. Which makes me kind of nervous that I might not even be able to get this over with before I meet a girl I really like. Because I don't want to lose it to anyone special, I'm just really honestly a little afraid of that type of affection. I'm good at flirting, but I don't know how I would handle this type of situation.

Anyways, do you have any advice or opinions you could give? Anything is much appreciated lol

I met her like about 6 months back on a chat site and we added each other on facebook and used to talk all day. Tbh, there are several reasons why I shouldn't even bother too much about it, at least the things I tell myself.
a. She is ching chong Asian and i don't take ethnics seriously.
b. Her English is kinda weird.
c. She watches korean drama and likes those type of girly guys and while i am alright looking, not the Asian ken doll type.
d. She is a very beautiful girl but based on being approached I can date equally pretty girls quite easily so i am definitely not desperate because of her looks.
e. She used to flirt with me a lot before and I took it for granted and I tried to steer the conversation to only Skype sex every time (got it a few times too lel) then later, I started to do the same to her and she was pushing me away and I kept feeling bad.
f. She made out with some real life friend of hers of 3 years when he asked her out and he didn't date her later and I felt like a major beta cuck because she used me as online support over it without telling me and I called her every derogatory name and blocked her when she confessed. It also disappoints me to think that i figured out out who the guy was and he is some fuggo babyfaced Asian boy which makes me doubt her standards.

The last two points are something that make me hate her to death.

But then again, I can't even get over this girl since we used to talk all day, share quite a bit of personal stuff, she was a REALLY nice girl when I compare with the other hoes i keep on meeting, it was like finding a treasure and losing it since lets be honest, literally impossible to find a b*** today worth dating in this generation.