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So here's the deal, my ex an I dated for a little under 2 years, we broke up about a year and 3-4 months ago. Lately we have been hanging out, I'd say since around new years time we have been hanging out and been really good, a few arguments here and there, all which en in apologizes or we stop and realize how dumb it is before it blows up. We've gotten really close again and I've thought about asking her out, but not yet, becuase she's so busy with work and school, I couldn't put myself in the middle of that. We are single, yet not hooking up with other people or seeing anyone else.

Anyways, here's the part I'm confused on. I've told her I wanted her and that I can see myself with her. I don't want to put my life on hold and hope that one day we'll get married. There are signs from her actions and words that say yes we will but then when tempers flare there are times where she is like I'll never be with you again blah blah, then we settle down and the next day she'll say she loves me and all this other stuff. I know arguments are normal but why say all that extra crap...

OK so I've been working at this bar, there is this girl that and we both obviously have an attraction for one another. Recently I was at the place iw ork at for my birthday and she had commented how much of a stud I am when I go out and even when I work. She told my sister she could see herself dating me and how cool/great of a guy I am. Well to be honest I am pretty interested in taking her out sometime, the only thing is tho, she currently has a boyfriend. I usually tend to stay away with girls with boyfriends but for some reason I want to take this girl out, I don't like the fact that she has a boyfriend but is interested in me, it makes me worry that if I take the chance and date her (eventually) that she could end up doing this with someone else. It also puts me on edge due to teh fact she seems so interested in me yet she has a boyfriend ( I do not know their history or relationship or him, nothing about them really). I enjoy flirting with her and she is very open and fun.

What am I to do? I feel if I take her out I'll be betraying my ex because neither of us are talking or going on dates with anyone else, but I also feel as if I don't take this then maybe I'll be missing something? We are both single, I've worked a long time to gain my ex's trust back and get to the point where she tells me she loves me again, I just don't understand what's going on. What would you do? What are you suggestions? Do I take her out and see where it goes, see what potential there could be? She Doesn't seem to have much of a history with her current boyfriend and Doesn't seem to interested in him or her future with him... Do I even need to tell my ex about this even tho we aren't dating? If I do hook up with this girl am I wrong? Do I tell my ex even if she asks if I've been with anyone? Like I said we're single but I'm just so confused.

vote and explain if you can pls or any personal expiernces

Scott atran went to live in the places most associated with terrorism

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he is by nature and trade an anthropologist not a terrorist appologist.

he has been used as a consultant by the upper echelons of the government

and is concerned with truth rather than hype.

The war on error ...

here is the gist of his main findings

the context.

around 25% pf the world is Muslim. the word might as well mean person in a quarter of the world

only 7% of the Islamic world has any sympathy for bin laden

out of these only a tiny percentage would consider doing anything violent (including regular or terrorist)

this mentality is very rarely transgressed by any kind of action

crash of civilizations (failed states and dictatorships) not clash of civilizations (religious war/ east v west) creates the conditions in which this mentality can flourish

unemployment . failed states , worthless young life with time on its hands and few to no prospects

kids who feel spit upon make gangs with their friends but then feel the need for true empowerment via ''religious'' action rather than profit motive

people start off in a counter culture akin to that of any country and then feel not enough is being done and group off to ''do more''

young people don't listen to moderates. radicalism has its attraction in any young culture. it is the direction of this energy that is misplaced.

the picture itself is akin to black ''gangstas'' in hip hop culture or white fascists. the only real difference is the direction of this energy.

the true nature is one of a tiny percentage of the kids that would grow up to be a gang in one place eventually taking on a path of wanting ''to do something against the goliath'' in another

a misplaced sense of altruism and empowerment drives this path

the religion itself might as well be race or nationality

it just means brown ppl. the religion itself is secondary to the cultural identity which basically just means everyone around them

geo communications and the internet make things easier and establish a different culture to the one that existed a few decades ago.

transitional stage people are most likely to be vulnerable to this

people who are friends and grow up around each other are most likely to group together to get involved, same principal as the wests gangs and traditional soldier units

empowerment is the thing here. to some it represents empowerment, just as the election of Obama might or the events in Egypt represent other rival senses of empowerment to them

the sense of the alien created after 9/11 by the American media and government is ridiculous and misplaced.