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I've been on and off with my current boyfriend for 2 years. We broke up because I was a bit toxic. Example. I would get jealous. I would get mad or become petty as hell and talk back to him in a sassy attitude. I go through his phone a lot.
When we broke up. I took it serious and decided to stop being so toxic.
He wanted us to get back together and work on things.
Now that I have dramatically 360 my whole attitude. He says he is bored. And he likes me sassy. He likes me with a bit of attitude.
I dont know exactly what he wants anymore. He doesn't want the attitude but likes it. I can't take it over the top, but need a limit.
But him, he has been a bit confrontational about my personal habits. Smoking. Drinking. Partying. He's been curious where when and who I was with.
I am confused. This second time around I really don't give two shit about being pissed off anymore. I have learned to ignore the BS. No matter how loud the BS gets. And now he is bored and wanting more.
Let's hear it from the men! What can you deal with on a daily basis?

I get very bad vibes from my brother's girlfriend. Whenever she sees me, she makes faces like as if she hates me or something for no reason. Another thing I noticed is that he hates her mother because she says that her mother who is a housewife steals money from her husband. And recently her mother is teaching her how to drive. That's so weird. She acts all dumb too when she is with my bro. And many scenarios like she sees me like something low - see thinks I work in back office despite she seeing my LinkedIn. And she knows problems in our family like my mom is paralyzed due to brain stroke and dad ( they both have high blood pressure) , I have work from home , so bro has to help at home - still she forces my brother and argues with him for overnight stay (2 days) and all. She behaves very incentive. All the time, I only see my bro explaining her and begging her to understand and she still argues and finally after 2-4 days argument from getting tired of explaining her, my bro stops explaining her and then finally she agrees.

I met this guy through a mutual friend of mine ( actually it is her cousin ) . Let call him Wayne ( im protecting his name )
So wayne and I first met we both had a so. He had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Well one day his girlfriend ended it with him because she didn't want to work it out and that same day but different time my boyfriend ended it with me because he only wanted to stay friends.

Well here is what been happening :
* I took his keys and he smiled about it
* He teased me with his keys saying here come get it when I'm short
* He let me have his keys till it was time for him to leave
* He bought me a shirt
* He told me I was sexy in the shirt
* We were sitting on the couch and he put his hat on my head and said I look sexy
* He called me beautiful
* We would kiss , hold hands , make love , etc
* The night that his girlfriend and my boyfriend broke up with us is the night he said I really like u and he loved it when I put my head on his shoulder and his cousin ask when we were sitting on the couch if it feels right and he said very.
* He would tickle me
* He always make sure I eat and if I don't he get very pissed because he doesn't want to see me hungry
* He always is protecting me and say I will never let anyone hurt u
* That is just a few good things.. 😊😊

Here is the other things :
* Told me that he was back with his ex and that I need to stop trying to get to him to date me when I did nothing wrong.
* Told me that he will never date someone that he doesn't know
* It will take years for him to get to know me
* When I was in the kitchen he called his ex on the phone saying hi wifey. I'm guessing he is trying to make me jealous. Good luck on that 😉
* That. I need to loose feelings for him
* That is just a few other things 😔😔😔🤔🙄
* He said he doesn't want to be with me he only want to be with his ex and he doesn't like me that way.

Soo I'm super confused on EVERYTHING actions one then words another